though me and my boyfriend been together since 4 years,and that i;m pregnant now, i could never until now suck his dick and pleasure him in that way!
how can i start to like it because he wants me to but he never insisted?
2006-07-26 00:21:31 · 13 answers · asked by Musty 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love him,think that you do this as a present for him. If it is something he enjoys,don't hesitate and stop regarding it as disgusting. For him,it might be a way to see that you love everything about him and not a way of seeing you lower your self-esteem.I'm sure he respects you and you must realize that he asking this doesn't change his feelings towards you..Nothing should be weird nor disgusting between two people that truly love each-other..
2006-07-26 00:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by marlene_amelye 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah what Dorky said helps. Watch a couple of porns to get the technique down. When you can give your boyfriend that kind of pleasure, it will give you pleasure at the same time because you know it is really getting him aroused. If it's the taste or gag reflex, there are different creams and stuff you can get to put on the penis to help you while you perform oral. Also, remember to tease a bit before you really get going on him, and a neat little trick is to swirl your tongue on his tip after he's reached orgasm. I love girls that take the time to really learn how to please! I know your boyfriend is going to go nuts when you surprise him with this! Have fun!
2006-07-26 07:38:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha same here... i've been with my bf for 5.5 yrs almost and periodically i would give him oral but i keep stopping on and off while performing so it was annoying. might as well not give him any. however, recently while i was watching porn i learned new techniques on how to suck a dick. i performed it on my bf and he actually wanted to come in which that has never happened. he still didnt come but the fact that he was really turned on by my techniques turned me on. so i would suggest that you think of giving oral sex as a way to show your bf that you love him and want to satisfy him for all the times he has been there for you. it's just a bonus to give good oral sex and the fact that you're making someone else feels like heaven would make you feel really good too. it would make your pride go high since you know you could handle a penis so just enjoy making someone else feel good because of your mouth... that's turning on if you ask me. oh yeah... watching porn also helps a lot since you know that you're not the only one that enjoys it haha
2006-07-26 07:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by dorkydork 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get into porn! Simple as that! .. photos, videos etc. It helps with desensitization of these things and enhances the experience. You just have to get away from your phobias and enjoy yourself and your partner. Start off with just basic stuff not "going all the way" with it. A simple kiss here and there, a lick, caressing his testicles etc just to get used to it. Try it after he has washed so that it can be more enjoyable for you. Slow and easy one step at a time. Good luck!
2006-07-26 07:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by mama mia! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a certain level of pleasure that I feel when I know that I am doing something that greatly pleasures my husband. When you take yourself out of the equation and realize that you are giving him something that he cannot give himself (unless he is double jointed), it is a great feeling.
2006-07-26 07:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by Ifeelyourpain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it. In a relationship you both sometimes do things you dont want to do to please your mate. It works the other way around too, you both have to sacrifice things also. If you dont like it by now, there is nothing that will make you. So save it for special occasions or something. He should understand your dislike.
2006-07-26 07:28:00 · answer #6 · answered by Charleton Sexton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just use your hand and lick the tip...its a start. you may enjoy watching it pop.
just pretend you are kissing a little version of him.
i like dorky dorks answer too.
2006-07-26 07:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by lowIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since he has never asked don't worry,it could be one of his fansasy's but not essential if you's have a cometment to each other.as for myself I don't even like them that much but it comes down to personal preferace and if you don't like it...don't do it,
2006-07-26 07:27:58 · answer #8 · answered by s_d_wadham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh....think of it as a great big icelolli with a gooy suprise in the centre lol.
2006-07-26 07:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by Game Guy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cover his d.i.c.k in like, something u really like, then suck it off, that will pleasure your guy
2006-07-26 07:25:51 · answer #10 · answered by ezzaphill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋