2006-07-26 00:09:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't talk to me as much because they are in the honeymoon stage. I asked him if we were still friends and he said yes. but my common sense is telling me that our "friendship" may be over soon. I lost a parent during this relationship.
2006-07-26 00:45:09 · update #1
I am giving him space and time. but i know someone new will be in my life real soon.
2006-07-26 00:56:56 · update #2
so much good advice really hard to chose the best one. thanks everyone for responding.
2006-07-28 08:33:54 · update #3
You can, but there will probably be a bunch of B.S. that comes with it. What does your ex think? If he's kool with it then yeah, I guess. Why not.
2006-07-26 00:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by Smokeahontis© 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you an you & your ex are okay as friends. But it's kinda hard to see someone who use to be your someone w/ another person. Plus, most of the time breaks up end up as friends because they still having feelings for that person but haven't moved on yet (The truth hurt's, I know.) or it's either better as a friendship than an relationship. But I say keep in touch but nothing to close. Don't want any fights to start.
2006-07-26 07:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by KIMBO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let leave the bullshit aside... to move on you have to move on, babe. You don't have to fight with him or be his enemy, just to forget him. The best way to do so is just to go for another boyfriend. When you have one and you are happy, then you can see your ex and be friends in an equal relationship. Any psychologist will tell you that the best way to move on is just to keep apart from him except if you meet by chance. There is social pressure to play the "be friends", but not everybody can move from love to friendship, especially if you still love him.
2006-07-26 07:19:22 · answer #3 · answered by Sissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him space, but try to keep in touch. The honeymoon will eventually end and he will be back in touch with you again before you know it. If not, then this friendship just wasn't meant to be. Take care and good luck!
2006-07-26 07:48:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can still be friends, but there are 2 kinds of friendships,
one that you will be there if he needs you (in the background), not always around.
the other is always around, this kind of friendship might cause problems in his new relationship. but, if this is the friendship you have , then i suggest you see if the new g/f is ok with you first.
also you need to make sure that you are ok emotionally to see him with someone else. it will trigger old memories and feelings.
be careful what you wish for. be careful what you decide.
2006-07-26 07:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are comfortable with that than 'yes' if not stay away because it would not be fair on your ex if you interefered with their relationship-it all depends on if you still have feelings for your ex?
2006-07-26 07:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by butterfly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you broke up for a reason that doesn't represent hate, if it's ok with the both of you, i can't see any reason why you can't be friends. just be careful of his present gf, she may think of other reasons why you guys remained friends.
2006-07-26 07:35:14 · answer #7 · answered by kevkatz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're divorce from him, this does NOT mean that you have hate him. Yes, you can still remain friends.
2006-07-26 07:13:23 · answer #8 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thers no need to. What's over is over. if he was so important to you you'd stil be with him. Move ahead and get on with your life
2006-07-26 07:13:55 · answer #9 · answered by pakir poyum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both really want to, sure, though be advised that his girlfriend might be thinking that you're trying to get him back.
2006-07-26 07:12:07 · answer #10 · answered by LTD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋