for 2 weeks i havent been able to bond with my baby boy and all i want to do it die and not be here on earth! i dont know what to do anymore. I am scared if i go get help they will look down on me and take my baby away cause of what i am feeling!! why is this happening to me??? i used to love babies and i was around them all the time. I used to light up when i saw one.I used to not be able to do anything but think about a baby.why am i acting like this?? it is tearing me and my bf apart and he left me this morning for a few hours alone andnow all i want to do is killl myself!!!! what is going on? why do i feel like this?
2006-07-26 00:06:54 · 10 answers · asked by proud mama 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Is your mom or grandma or aunt or a friend available to watch your little boy for a while? It sound like you need a break !!! Don't beat yourself up !! You're just overwhelmed !! Why wouldn't you be !! You just had a baby !!! You get to be tired !!! Do you have a church? If not, find one in your community...there are people there that want to help !!! Getting into church and finding out how to give your problems to God....what a relief that is !! God created the universe, he can help you get thru this rough time !!! He's a loving God and he wants what's best for you and your son !!! Every Sunday you can go to church, take your little boy to the nursery and go in and have your adult time with God and other adults !! Find a church that has groups for new moms !!! Churches offer a whole array of services and they don't cost you a penny !!!! Look into it !!! Go visit a church right now !! Most likely there's some one there right now that would love to talk to you and give you a break !!!!
God is Good !!
You and your baby and your boyfriend are in my prayers from now on !!!
Angie
2006-07-26 00:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have post partum depression. You need to go see your caregiver and possibly get on some antidepressents. Make an appointment right away!
Until you can get in, try to get some exercise and take your vitamins. Those things can help some. Also, try to get a break from the baby each day if you can. If you feel yourself getting frustrated or upset with the baby, put him in his crib and walk away until you are calm and can care for him.
This is NOT your fault that you feel this way. It is hormonal. Your body goes through such big hormonal shifts after birth and many moms have these kind of weird and scarey feelings. Please get yourself some help so that you can enjoy your baby!
2006-07-26 08:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by momma2mingbu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Post Partum Depression Warmline
1-800-773-6667
What is Post Partum Depression?
No one knows the exact causes of post partum depression. It is more than just the "baby blues" as it lasts longer than 10 days and is more severe. The baby blues tend to be mild sadness and mood swings, while PPD causes severe depression and loss of interest in life.
After pregnancy, progesterone levels fall drastically. Like progesterone, the levels of estrogen, a hormone that seems to be important in mood fall drastically in the first 48 hours after delivery. Thyroid levels may also drop sharply.
A low thyroid level can mimic depression symptoms. A link between estrogen levels and post partum depression has not been establish [McEwen, 1993] and experts can not agree on the role that hormone fluctuations play in post partum depression.
2006-07-26 07:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by Starr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very normal (a lot of women experience this after having a baby).
It is called post-natal depression, which is caused by an imbalance of hormones in your body after pregnancy and birth.
Please do not feel ashamed of yourself.
Don't feel frightened of how other people might reaact.
However, i would stronlgy suggest that you speak to your doctor asap, as this condition can be very dangerous if not controlled - you might end up hurting your baby.
Good luck - i hope all works out well for you!!
Ps Remember that you are not the only one this has happened to! Lots of other women have the same experience after having a baby.
2006-07-26 07:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by funky_gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We'll calm down it's called post par tum depression lots of women get it after labor. It's just you body is reacting different. You need to get help no one will call the police on you and take your baby away. Call you bogon right away and get the names of counsels, she may be able to give you medicine that helps, Also try to get a family member to come and help y'all out because you need to take care of your self to. As for your boyfriend have your obgyn talk to him and explain what post partum depression is so he can understand. Don't worry you'll be ok if you get help,i'll keep you in my prayers.
2006-07-26 07:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by Vanissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Post partum depression? Please talk to your doctor about it right away. They won't check you in to the loony bin or take your baby away, especially if you have decent support of your boyfriend. Please seek their help immediately. A simple medication may balance your hormones or whatever is off, and then it's onward and upward for you and your baby. Hang in there. Don't lose it. Be strong for yourself and your little one. You both deserve it!
2006-07-26 07:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by viclyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Post partum syndrome....
it will come to past...hold your baby and give a good cry it helps
2006-07-26 07:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by shirley b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry its a phase of mood try to be more with your baby and please dont think like killing yourselves. it wont solve the problem. Just have a small nap and forget what had happend.
2006-07-26 07:12:02 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Rahumika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
post partum depression, maybe. it's normal with some women. consult with your doctor - anti depressants might help
2006-07-26 07:11:21 · answer #9 · answered by ok 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much stuff going on at the same time.. call a friend or see a consultant! good luck.. and be patient
2006-07-26 07:14:44 · answer #10 · answered by armenia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋