why is it hard for a man to find true love?

Answer 1

that is like the million dollar question cause I am female and have the same problem
maybe it's our perception of love in it's entirety it is not all roses and hearts but work hard work
But if you belive in it, I belive sooner or later you will find it!

Answer 2

I really wouldn't know because I'm not a man.

But I think maybe for a lot of men they don't show their emotions as much. Sometimes I feel past stereotypes have led men to believe that it isn't the quite so macho thing to do, and you have to be appear less emotional than a woman. I also believe men sometimes don't know what true love is, some confuse it too much with lust, or (like women) become fed up with women as a whole because of a bad past relationship.
Once people embrace their true feelings and aren't afraid to accept their emotions, then can they only find true love.

Answer 3

I think we, as a girl, are looking for true love in the same way.
It's hard for us both because we don't communicate the same way... and it will be alot easier if we say our feelings out, but it is very risky, might make opponent feel happy, or take advantage of you...
It's hard for us both. But I have to say, most girls hate playing games. So be honest as possible when you aproach!! That's the quickest way to find true love...

Answer 4

Because true love isn't something you find, it's something you plant a seed for and watch grow.

It's like looking for sunflowers in your garden, wondering why it's mid-summer and they haven't bloomed when you never planted any seeds to begin with.

You have to be willing to do the hard work and accept that every seed planted will not bloom into a beautiful sunflower.

Good luck.

Answer 5

I wish I knew for my own hearts sake, it's very hard for me to trust anybody in my life I loved 2 females. I am very loving and honest and both times I got burned bad, the first time I wasn't shocked, but the 2nd girl really like crumbled my world. Love is so damn tough I almost want to give up hope.

Answer 6

its hard for men and women to find true love . its not a easy prosseces and many never do .
its sad but true i am a beleiver in every one has a sole mate .
good luck finding yours , shes out there but the world is a big place .

Answer 7

I'm sure a lot of women would say the same but you have to understand that this is life and people are people. In everything in life you'll find people who are straight up and honest on the flip side you'll find people how are cheaters, users and just want to play with your heart. It's just life!!!

Answer 8

Make a detail assessment of yourself and ask yourself what is the foundation or your motive in all engagements? Are you truly sincere? Above all, are you Godly?
God told us that good people are for good people, believers for believers, idolators for idolators. Where do you belong? Then be realistic in all your endeavour. You can have aspiration and desire, irregardless, be real and sincere.
More iver, everything has a time. Waith for your tme and wiat with God. Ok!
Good luck

Answer 9

It depends on the guy! Some women are only after certain things in a relationship. Some people are too busy, women are becoming less dependent on men and so its getting harder to meet people.

Answer 10

Men are too selfish. True love to a man is: a woman that will cook for them , clean, iron, etc etc

Lazy shits!

Answer 11

coz he doesnt know the meaning of true love yet, when he finds it he treats it bad and chases after the one that aint true love