Ok, im 15, and my mom is 28 (she had me at 13), but she looks 17, she has to get her license checked when she buys beer. Lots of people ask if we're sisters, or feternal twins, and it's annoying! Well my boyfriend came over and she totally flirted with him! So I caught then in her bedroom, she said she was "showing him pussy" which is our cat's name and he's never seen him. HELP! How do i confront her!
2006-07-25 23:50:22 · 20 answers · asked by Stephen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
"showing him pusssy"
2006-07-25 23:50:43 · update #1
How do i confront her?!
2006-07-25 23:53:37 · update #2
we live in canada, the legal age is 14 here.
2006-07-25 23:57:41 · update #3
yea - your Mom needs to grow up and start acting like a Mom.. Its obvious your Mom is an immature idiot... If I wre you I'd threaten her with police and courts if she doesn't start acting the part of a Mom and not that of a 17 year old... She is 28, she should be dating and getting men friends close to her age... You got a F'ed up MOM... I feel bad for you - sorry
2006-07-25 23:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by johncharlesrealty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all good.
Are you close emotionally or just in looks and age?
If you can talk with her, you need to ask what was she thinking.
You may be too young to have a "serious" boyfriend, but you can still have someone you can date and hang out with.
If she wants you to be able to have guys pick you up at home and treat you with that respect, then she needs to keep hands (and kitty cats) off.
I had a similar problem so I can understand how betrayed you feel.
Is this her way of trying to say... there are things she can do that you aren't ready for.
There need to be boundaries... I am sure she wouldn't want you "sneaking around" for he never to know the guy you're seeing...
Good luck.
2006-07-25 23:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by lrad1952 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How Old is your boyfriend?
you should feel proud of having a mother that age (young)...
when she was you age she already had you and maybe did not have time or same kind of opportunity to date people the way you do now, maybe her mind is still immature.... you should talk with both of them at the same time and make clear to them that you are aware of the situation (just remember who gets mad first losses the case), if the answer you get is not what you spectate, respect that, and make sure to tell your mom that you rather have her support because you love her. About your bf make sure that if he doesn't like the situation with your mom to make that clear in your conversation with them so no one gets hurt and maybe you still can see him or just tell him that you are not ready for that and that you prefer his friendship may he will let you know that he really cares and doesn't want to lose you......good look!
2006-07-26 00:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by JTB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old he is,but if he's your age,your mother is not only aslut,but a child molester... and can be arrested if anyone in the right mood found out about her demeanor!I hope for her sake and yours she was only showing him the cat!Was the cat in the room w/ them?..........Dont ask her,ask him;he's immature and will be more likely to tell you!He's probably shared this with his buddies already,and if not..will soon!.......I just read your Q&A;You must have some real issues if you make up tings like this for attention.I questioned your age ,,but this is behavior I would expect from a 13yr old.
2006-07-25 23:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you don't need a boyfriend who would treat your mother as anyone but YOUR MOTHER, which is synonymous with being OFF LIMITS. You see, if he will not respect you at home, he won't respect you elsewhere.
Next, don't jump to conclusions, and don't state the issue wrongly. Your mother cannot STEAL your boyfriend because he must be a willing participant even in flirting.
Finally, face facts. Any male you're interested in who is 19 or older moves ever closer to your mother's age group, depending upon her perspective on men.
In conclusion, give yourself time. You're not looking for a boyfriend who would be just as interested in your mother as he is in you. You want someone who will "devote himself to you, forsaking all others, including your mother."
Have a nice day
2006-07-26 00:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by mcjordansr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More like Showing him HER pussy. Tell the hoochie to get her own man and start acting like a mom. If she still persues him then try Gerry Springer
2006-07-25 23:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom has some serious issues and can be put in jail for indecent behavior with a minor . She should know better shame on her. You may want to say something to her about that and let her know that it makes you really uncomfortable the way she acts
2006-07-25 23:55:54 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like moms needs the magic sausage?!?, CATFIGHT!!!...you got to step too Moms and cut that mess off ASAP, what??....if your Mom's in smokin' I'm sure she could find a LEGAL man...yo under 15?? C'mon that's jail time...well maybe not in the south.
2006-07-25 23:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Halfrican 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a 3 way with him.
2014-10-15 02:13:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you can share the love of your boy friend provided he is having two dingdongs!!!!!
If not first 3 days for you
Next 3 days for your mom
Let him have a day off - I will be there on week end - both of you are for me only........
2006-07-26 00:44:05 · answer #10 · answered by SESHADRI K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋