i'm agood looking guy and i have anice personality,but all girls try to avoid me they think that i'm showing off.plz help me
2006-07-25 23:32:45 · 12 answers · asked by wizardheart6 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
guys who call themselves good looking often expect girls to just fall at their feet. it doesnt work like that! and having a nice personality isnt enough either. you gotta talk to the girl and actually listen to what she's saying. and be nice 2. compliment her. at the same time, dont act. be yourself. also, dont spend too much time on answers. you gotta go out there and find a girl! lol. good luck chum. let meknow how it all goes k?
2006-07-25 23:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Maybe your outgoingness is intimidating. Especially if you are trying to hook up with shy girls. Then again, perhaps what's really happening is that you over do it. You want this girl to like you so you show off. But you get carried away. Girls want someone who can make them laugh, who can wipe away their tears, who they can lean on, someone who is reliable and mature, but knows how to be silly. Someone that remembers their birthday and the first time you met. Try toning your efforts down just a little. Instead of showing off compliment. Instead of acting out charm. Remember that most women are more about emotions than anything else, it's about the way a guy makes her feel. Next time you find a girl that you really like, make her feel as beautiful as diamonds, as sweet as chocolate and as important as a Queen. Chances are you're luck will change. Good luck!
2006-07-26 00:15:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, are you actually showing off. If you ask me i would say YES! reason being that you have already described yourself as a good looking guy with a nice personality. Why not leave them to find that out.
2006-07-25 23:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, none of us can know just what you mean by "showing off"... showing off in what way?
But if, as you say, ALL the girls think that you're showing off, you must have a pretty good idea of what it is you're 'showing off' that's causing them to avoid you. So stop showing off, and see if that changes anything.
The fact that you used the phrase, 'showing off' means that you pretty much know what it is in your behavior that's turing off the chicks...
2006-07-25 23:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to just be yourself and you'll attract the right girl. Girls in general, get bad vibes from guys who are being fake and trying too hard....so just be yourself, don't play games, don't brag about your achievements to much, don't come on too strong...chill, relax, take it easy!
2006-07-25 23:37:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had the same problem. but in my case it wasnt the Showing off as much as it was my manerisms.....I squint alot, and from what i hear, i unknowingly treat girls that talk to me like crap! I nve meant to, but thats the vib they got from me. Anyway..best advice is to try to change your image. DONT be yourself! be a nicer guy, who listens and laughs more,the image you made for your self has to go. they'll dig you for it.
2006-07-25 23:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by Mazimus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you're coming on too strong and because of that it turns the girls away?
2006-07-25 23:34:59 · answer #7 · answered by LTD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well look around and follow the dating rules youll get one
2006-07-25 23:35:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause your probobly ugly
2006-07-26 00:10:02 · answer #9 · answered by acer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should improve your English
2006-07-25 23:36:10 · answer #10 · answered by sgt. pepper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋