i would really like to get a girlfriend im 14 and have never had a girlfriend but all the girls seem to hate me plus ive got a few spots that makes it worse please help me.........
2006-07-25 23:05:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be a man, .........i mean read more on courting tecniques and see a movie on love focus and tv's show's to get more ideas on how to do so.......
or wait a moment to be full grown to have more confidence on yourself.it's easy ...very easy...... when started ......so start now.
2006-07-25 23:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by archiemedes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man Im 13 , just got a GirlFriend , My second one but this one is serious . SO what spots Are worse maybe I can Help you on something Its what I like doing.... Also how mature are you , do you whant a girlfriend just for sex
I f youre the shy kind like me just speak up . It does seem kind of wierd talking to a girl you like... and final dont say immediatly that you like her try to talk normaly until you get the feeling that ITS TIME
2006-07-27 02:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no rush. Sounds more like a confidence thing to me. Work on the things you can do something about. Get some clearasil (or if that don't work go see the doctor) and clear up your spots. Look at the things you like to do (Computers, cars,chess (???)) whatever and see if you can find a local club that you can join. That way any girls who are already in the club will already have something in common with you and you will have something to discuss. Otherwise be yourself - you will get a girlfriend eventually and it's not a race.
2006-07-26 06:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by geegee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there! First, maybe you should try to make a good impression to the people who hate you, before you even think of getting a girlfriend! Remember, popular opinion about you always matters when courting someone. After this, I think you're ready for a girlfriend! You should go visit webdate_dot_com and look for women who you think you'd really like!
2006-07-26 06:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by Diamanta C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so young, when I was 14 I was not considered good looking at all - Had big glasses, spots and was very unconfident. Now I am considered to be very pretty - I'm sure you too will grow into being a swan.
In the meantime, be nice to girls, make them laugh - but not by being a dick head and most importantly, be yourself!
2006-07-26 06:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by singleton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, don't change just to get a girl to like you. It's better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for who you are not! Also, You're still young, I'm sure girls like you, and if not now, You will find someone soon enough. Don't give up hope, you've still got alot of years ahead of you! :)
2006-07-26 06:11:58 · answer #6 · answered by Jennilicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and Im sure you will get a g/f soon. Dont worry about spots loads of people get them. Be nice to girls and they will start to like you. You are young to worry about girls really but hey...... who am I to say
2006-07-26 06:07:54 · answer #7 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't stop looking for girls,u are not gonna find them under the bed so try to have always new friends try to make good friend ships with nice guys and girls,be ur self,ur words are the weopen learn how to talk with girls it's better than good looking or havin' nice body,my best wishes
2006-07-26 06:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by wizardheart6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi nick.for having a time pass girlfriend first of all u have to be good looking or i can say dashing and having good personality to impress a girl.but if u need a true loving girl friend u have to wait.
2006-07-26 06:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by atti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never mind about your spots. concentrate on being interesting, funny and confident. and if you can laugh at yourself you're onto a winner. guys with spots can still get a girl as long as they have a fantastic funny personality. forget about your looks and concentrate on your character! good luck
2006-07-26 06:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by stingub40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still very young.....don't worry about the spots.... even as adults we are prone to a couple now and again...just be yourself, be nice and respect the girls, never gossip about them and don't join in with your mates when they are bragging about themselves..... play it cool.... the girls won't be able to help themselves to want to know you better....
2006-07-26 06:09:55 · answer #11 · answered by Saccharin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋