We broke up a year ago & it looks like we may get back together-do second time round relationships work?
2006-07-25 22:47:15 · 17 answers · asked by butterfly girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Butterfly girl, it depends on your situation. My partner of 4 years (minus a 6month break) went through this. If you broke up on good terms, yes, it'll work (eg.my partner and myself). If you broke up on bad terms, I would be cautious. I definately wouldn't do anything about it if cheating was an issue. I also wouldn't begin the relationship again if you have not discussed the issues you may have had when it was called off a year ago.
Hope this helps. Some ppl only see black and white, either yes or no. I think you know the answer already. I hope you make the decision for the right reasons. All the best! :D
2006-07-26 00:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by montanasamra 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with going back to an ex. It's just that if you go back to the ex while the ex cheated on you and lied about it to your face, then there is something wrong with it, otherwise you two can try again and see where it takes you.
Maybe the guy has really changed and he has matured since the last time. To be quite honest you'll never know if it could/would/might work out unless you give it a try. It's obvious the both of you still have feelings for each other so why not, go for it.
2006-07-26 00:13:44 · answer #2 · answered by sweetdivine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears like you're only starting up out with this complete bf/gf aspect. decrease go into opposite and do not take all of it too heavily. you have not were given sturdy reason to imagine you want numerous human beings. in case you want to the contact the first guy lower back then go ahead yet i imagine it might want to be more effective to chalk all of it as a lot as classes discovered and promises destiny possibilities a probability. you've a lot of time to attempt new issues and function some relaxing and do not get too severe about this stuff yet. Your "Mr. actual" continues to be accessible and also you should no longer assume him to be the first or 2d (or perhaps 10th) guy you start up to get to understand.
2016-11-26 00:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by fenimore 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think about true relationship you have to consider a number of things. During the gap of separation you must have noticed the qualities that your ex- boyfriend possess which made you to think of establishing a revised relationship. It is difficult to advise you from my end as I have neither seen you nor your boyfriend. The decision has to be taken by you considering that what are the qualities of your ex-boyfriend that will re-establish the relationship.
2006-07-25 22:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by funnynice2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u broke up for a reason, for a yr u've tasted other guys and by now u know what u want. If breaking up was a mistake then correct it by taking the second chance. But if it wasn't then stay off it. But remember gurl, he is still who he is, goodluck
2006-07-25 23:06:33 · answer #5 · answered by hottest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Things may be fun at first, but things will sour faster than it did before. Do not make the same mistake twice.
2006-07-25 22:59:40 · answer #6 · answered by omsuperhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not a good idea. Haven't you ever heard the saying "never make the same mistake twice"?
2006-07-25 22:58:39 · answer #7 · answered by chocolatechick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what was the reason for breakup? unless you want something more out of this relationship(very long term),i suggest that try to stay away.
2006-07-25 22:51:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advise, try it and see if u like it, if not u can never say u didn`t give it a second try!
2006-07-25 22:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by dannii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out what other guys are out there and i think you might just change your mind. " try before you buy" find lots of guys that will treat you well not good
2006-07-25 22:52:33 · answer #10 · answered by sonia g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋