If you met someone you really loved. but you were in a marraige/ relationship how would you tell your partner its over to be with the new person????
2006-07-25 22:26:33 · 19 answers · asked by mrpickle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lets get this into prospective it isnt me so dont confuse the situation. i am so in love with my lady and she knows who she is
2006-07-25 22:40:50 · update #1
I don't know, you definitely are in a pickle.
2006-07-25 22:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Break it down. Tell them that sometimes relationships just dont work out. Youre not happy anymore and it won't work out for you. Then ask if its fair that you should be unhappy and stay in the relationship just to make them happy. Say it hurts but it has to be done because as long as you lie to yourself and stay in this situation it'll just get worse. I dont think you have to mention that you fell in love with someone else, because your unhappiness should be good enough reason to want out. You can be apologetic, but emphasize that it wouldnt be fair 4 you to live a lie and be miserable with them. It wouldnt be fair to both of you. So instead of doing so, and possibly end up mistreating this person by cheating on them, you'd rather end it. Thats it.
2006-07-26 05:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by Smokeahontis© 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't because I would have made absolutely sure that the person was the person I wanted to be with for the rest of my life in the very beginning, if I wasn't sure of that fact I would not have gotten married. If I thought by any chance there might be someone else I would be more compatible with I would not have gotten married...if there was any question in my mind or even the slightest hint of a doubt I would not have gotten married.
2006-07-26 05:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would think in cases like this there heart tells them its over before the words are said! Nobody goes out to just hurt people but sometimes in life this cant be helped,but me I would not mention new person so to save hurt and pain on all concerned!
2006-07-26 05:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know i know that feelings are a complicated thing but you still have reason and choices and the only way you could have gotten so far is because you wanted it to happen and you are treating the situation like your in highschool. asking other people when that will only get you in more trouble because they dont know the situation and neither do i how can we help you if you give us your side of the story but not all sides. go shoot yourself asshole.
2006-07-26 06:20:57 · answer #5 · answered by Brandon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONEY..ITS OVER..IM SORRY BUT I HAVE FOUND SOMEONE ELSE.....AND SHE SWALLOWS.....ok dude but remember new relationships are great and you have lots of sex,but after you committ or marry a woman she will stop putting out,and you will end up with the same old tired house frump that you just dumped.dont base your life on that.God played a cruel trick on us.men always want it,and women dont.they will fuk your brains out to get you down the aisle,but after the honneymoon you are done.so base it on love and who you could be happy with forever without sex or with very little sex.good luck dude.
2006-07-26 05:35:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, u need 2 be sure those feelings r not just lust, and u need to be sure that u really wanna end the relationship. I've been in that position, it was hard, but I had to follow my heart......only u know what u want and waht is best for you....g-luck!
P.S.- in my situation, the guy i broke it off with was glad I was honest, and only wanted me to be happy.
2006-07-26 05:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by dazed.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my father was in that situation and he had 3 kids.
fist try to understand are you TRULY in love , it's not that you will just divorce then realize that you don't love that person.
then if you are i think it is just bad and painful to not be with the person you love.
then i think you should respect your current partner and just break-up because marriage is based on love and if there is no love there is no marriage.
my dad divorced and had me
he says he tried to suffocate his feelings for my mother but every time he would see his wife he felt like suffocating, drowning and just wanted to leave.
2006-07-26 05:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by stellina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell them it's for another person, it hurts enough to be dumped but to be dumped for someone else is worse.
I believe in being honest but in this case keep the other person to yourself.
I would just say that "It's not working out for me..."
Good luck
2006-07-26 05:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by vinyl_mad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send them a very polite E Mail , saying I regret this is over but these are the reasons ==++== Goodbye , then don,t answer you ,phone for several weeks .
2006-07-26 05:56:26 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to the partner, be straight, it might not be what they want to hear, but it is your life after all.
Good luck.
2006-07-26 05:42:06 · answer #11 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋