2006-07-25 22:20:28 · 15 answers · asked by sun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would divorce him. That two timing bum.
2006-07-25 22:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That situation is very common here you know. Even women have children BEFORE they get married to another person. The question is, is their relationship still going on? If it is, then ask him why he married you in the first place. He should have married that girl and made an honest woman of her.
If their relationship was off even before you got married, then you have to learn to live with it. The child is his financial responsibility you know. It happened before your marriage so it's part of his past.
It's another thing to find out that during your marriage, he got involved with this woman and had a child with her. He has been cheating you all along. If you can swallow it like many here do, then you can try to salvage what you can and try to save your marriage. If this is the case, it is understandable that you would have a violent first reaction. But what's done is done. If you love your husband, try to talk him into breaking up with the woman without prejudice to support for the child.
2006-07-26 05:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this case, you are referring not in Singapore because your husband is likely to get a charge(under the woman charter act). If it is in other countries then no choice tolerate for the sake of your children. Focus on your children future and let it be.
2006-07-26 08:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean? A husband has his son and wife outside? If so I'd let the mom & baby in and tell him to stay outside in the heat!!!!
2006-07-26 05:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by ღKrissyღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,I think it would really depend on what kind of job he has.If he makes really good money,play it cool for awhile.Start stashing some money back,charge all credit cards and while he is gone pack everything that you want and leave. Think of this as his repayment of deceiving you.
2006-07-26 05:29:54 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the woman and child were before your marriage, there's nothing to do about it. If he went outside of your marriage and had a woman and a baby, I'd be flipping mad and he'd be gone....he could go be with them, cuz I'd be done with him.
2006-07-26 05:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by virtuouskelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little surprised but there is nothing you can do about what has been done. You have to decide on how to deal with it. If he hasnt told you about until you married i would be a little skeptical about what else he has hidden...
2006-07-26 05:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by omsuperhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That will depend on if U still want to continue ur relationship with him and how he treats U and his reaction when U find out...
If dun wanna continue, divorce...
If want to, solve the problem by discussing it...
2006-07-26 07:21:19 · answer #8 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hot outside, let them in the air conditioning. You can't just let people stand there
2006-07-26 05:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by researchtissue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
outside of what? the house? your marriage? well if he is already married and has another wife, he is commiting a crime in the US. get rid of him.
2006-07-26 05:23:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he would b out of the house
2006-07-26 12:25:23 · answer #11 · answered by devangel1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋