My question is can friends make out just for the sake of it or at that spur of the moment. After when all is over and still remains as common friend? What will the kind of feelings be when you guys meet again?
2006-07-25 22:11:43 · 14 answers · asked by milk 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Community Service
If it happens once on the spur of the moment, maybe. For example, you wind up hanging out together and take a walk in the moonlight and it's just too romantic to pass up--a one time thing and it's over. But friends cannot continute to make out on a regular basis and remain friends, because making out is expressing sexual feelings for someone else. And that leads to sexual desire. And once sexual desire is part of the equation, it is hard to continue to be "just friends". Especially if either of the two friends has a significant other, then the making out leads to possible jealousy, etc. So to sum up, Nol. Friends cannot make out and just remain friends.
2006-07-25 22:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by schenzy 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It can work out great if you both are good enough friends to talk about your feelings and your true expectations from eachother. If you are a busy girl/guy who just wants a small release every once in a while because you are attracted to the other person physically it can work. Sometimes you are just not ment to be together but the intamacy can boost your self esteem and make you feel alive. Give it a try and build on your maturity. Make sure you don't want anything else from this person and that they don't expect a relationship from you. A friend I made out with years ago recently drove across country just to hang out. We love eachother as great friends just nothing more anymore, it's a perfect example of how well it works. Sometimes it can take time depending on the feelings involved but I think it takes a really strong self assured individual to make it work. Good luck:)
2006-07-26 05:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It Actually Depends
To Each To Own
Some People Can Kiss And Not Tell
Yet Some Can Kiss And Tell
So Good Luck
Take Care
2006-07-26 05:14:58 · answer #3 · answered by Singapore_Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not,
it will never be the same, However, if you were good friends first and value that, i guess it is possible, if you put it in the right place in your mind, and realize it was silly and are not tempted or attracted to each other physically,, i guess you could laugh it off, and not give it too much thought,, but make up your mind, is it more, or just curiosity, and keep it the way that makes most sense.. don't thinkn about it,, or talk about it, or do it again,,
2006-07-26 05:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can be friends...been there, done that, bought the t-shirt. But you need to be mature about it. Put it down to what it was. Is saying that the next meeting can be a bit awkward but you get obver that if your really friends...
2006-07-26 05:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by vinyl_mad 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you're drunk or something. However, if you really have feelings towards each other, then there will always be a sexual tension between the two of you.
2006-07-26 05:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it always ends up in bed, making out is very sentious and feeling arise with the first kiss!! why would you make out with your friend?
2006-07-26 06:21:15 · answer #7 · answered by joseph6902000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't know Seriously.
But i think not. may be i won't be able to. Becuse when i will look a that person then evrey thing we did will come to my mind.
2006-07-26 05:16:04 · answer #8 · answered by Dream 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my experience this is almost impossible to do and almost always ends in tears as one preson always feels more than the other.
2006-07-26 05:14:31 · answer #9 · answered by Squirrel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jerry and Elaine tried that on "Seinfeld" and it didn't work out.
2006-07-26 05:16:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋