male?but a woman...?

Question

today i had a bad stomach due to my own cooking which i ate this morning, well, so i had to make a little rush to the gents, where i saw...one of my members at work whom is a very good friend of mine, entering the woman's toilet
(the toilet thank goodness no one uses it because our staffs are all men...).well since he is a blurry guy, i guessed he would return back to gents after realising his mistake, the story goes as i came out of the gent's after finishing my bussiness, i went to the office he wasnt there, curiosity kills a cat they say but in my story it actually suprised the cat till its nine lifes flew out, i knocked on the woman's door making sure no one there i heard srubbing sounds, i went in just find my self in front of my friend, with his pants, with period stains,he confessed, he's a woman...WAT CAN I DO?????? HOW CAN I FACE HIM AGAIN????????????????help me..

cant be ah...our office takes females too, but it doesnt seem alot of females like manga(japanese art comic) i work as a comic artist...a mangaka..we takes females one...and he never lied to me at all, every of my problems i always share it with him,he is rich..he drives a ncie big black car and i only have a vespa...sigh...

Answer 1

c'mon your being a little immature don't you think? just act as normal when you see him/her. He is still the same person, just because a part of the body is diffrent to what you thought it was dosen't mean he is any diffrent to before. Think of it you should pitty him/her, she has had to hide this secret from everyone so as to keep her from emmbaressment and disrespect. I think you should treat her in exactly the same way as before and don't tell anyone atall, give her that respect and trust in you. If you want respect from people you gotta gain it!

Answer 2

oh my goodness. firstly you need to remember, she is still a person. she is still a human being. dont think of her any differently, shes still the same person you were friends with. as you said, your very good friends with her, well, its your job to get alongside and speak to her. why does she try to be a man? there be some really deep issues, and as a good friend you need to be there for her. womens self-esteem is very fragile, the littlest thing can make a woman burst into tears. she obviously has esteem issues if she feels it would be better to be someone else. so dont turn your back on her, her esteems low enough already. look at it from her point of view, she may have had a difficult past, and being a man, people take her seriously, and people like and except her. then she finds you, such a good friend who cares enough to even go and look for her in the girls toilets, how many men would actually go into a females toilet? then you catch her, how can she ever face YOU again? shes probably just as devestated as you. so be strong, be a man, let her no its ok, because it is. shes not a different person, or friend. this will bring you closer because, your the only one who knows, you have her complete confidence.

Answer 3

Woah dude!!!! That is a pretty crazy story! I've never dealt with anything like that. It is a very unique situation and Im sure you will get a lot of ignorant answers. I would say start by learning to accept the fact that he is a female, then follow your heart. If you feel too uncomfortable with it and don't want to be friends, then that is OK. If you can accept the fact and understand that it is the same person you have already become good friends with, then that is even better. But, you better know this person really well and trust them, because people who get sex changes are not always but often very very unstable, and usually sexually repressed due to one or several horrific childhood experiences.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

i just cant understand why you should panic if your friend is a woman. probably it must have happened that your company appoints only males and she would have turned he to acquire that job which was very much needed. no one except you has found out yet the reality so why should you bother, let her continue the way she is. she has her own reasons to behave. you be as normal as you were before and be her good friend always.

Answer 6

Eat at Burger King

Answer 7

That's some strange stuff. He/she is probably more embarrassed and worried than you are. If you liked him before, then you can still be friends now. That friendship came from the inside not what he/she looked like. I'd be like "dude, that's some crazy sh!t...sup with that?!?!"

Answer 8

woaw ! if I saw your story in a movie, I should think "it's too much, it can't happen in the real life !"

anyway, just act with him/her as you always did, I guess he's not very confortable with his situation as being a female but wanted to be a male... So don't make her/him mor unconfortable.

if you could, tell her that if he wants to talk to you, she could...

Answer 9

Just be his friend. Do not let the cat out of the bag yet coz he needs his privacy.

Answer 10

Just quit and leave or shut your mouth up!!! He (she) probably needs the job a lot and may not be employed else where due to his sexuality..