2006-07-25 21:58:53 · 19 answers · asked by ma_nav121 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
For some reason when you are not with someone anymore all you can remember are the good times. The bad times that broke y'all up in the first place seem to fade. She probably isn't as good as your wife. So just try to be as happy as you can and appreciate your wife for all she is and all she does. And whatever you do never let her know another woman is on your mind.
2006-07-25 22:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Jennifer♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No reason to totally forget her cuz she was a part of your life and maybe she was pretty special....so I'm wondering what kind of thoughts you have been having about your ex GF. Are you still in love with her? Thinking romantic, sexual thoughts? Did you marry the wrong person? Do you have any contact with the ex? If you aren't feeling obsessive about your ex, then maybe it's like the more you try not to think about her, the more you are thinking about her. If you are happy with your wife and your marriage, simply don't worry about it, and the thoughts will go away. If you actually want the ex...then you have a serious problem and you need to resolve the issue.
2006-07-25 22:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by virtuouskelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why Still Think Of Your Ex?
Ask Yourself That?
Hey You Are Married Man
So Just Think About Your Wife
Think For Your Future
Not Your Past
Wish You Good Luck On Erasing Your Ex Out Of You Mind
Take Care
2006-07-25 22:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by Singapore_Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't necessarily need to forget an ex-girlfriend just because you are married - but if you are having thoughts about her that you shouldn't be that is another issue! Just try your best to be logical about it. If you find yourself fantasizing or whatnot about this ex, just think about your wife and how much you love her. Remind yourself that this is the woman you chose to spend your life with rather than the woman you chose to leave behind.
If your ex is still in your life and you are struggling with this - don't ever see her again. If that is at all possible it is the best thing to do. Why tempt yourself or remind yourself of her? Best to leave it in the past.
I know it's always hard to leave things behind but just think of your wife first and you'll find your way out of this. Good luck!
2006-07-26 05:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by ykokorocks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are already married I would have hoped you would have let go of any hopes of getting back together with your ex girlfriend. I would say you just need to enjoy your marriage and focus on your future with your wife and not the past.
2006-07-25 22:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by ekaty84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I sympathize, been there done that. Really big question are you in love with your wife?
If yes, then this is something within you that needs to be addressed. What was it about this girlfriend that you miss?
How can you bring what you miss, energetically into your life now?
Ultimately anything you yearn for out side of yourself is something you need to take responsibility for within.
As human beings we love to project outside ourselves so we don't have to look inward.
For me letter writing has been positive for resolve. Saying goodbye. Saying thank you for all she has brought into your life and a clean goodbye.
Its also Ok to love people who have been a big beautiful part of our lives.
Its Ok to allow yourself to feel love for our past connections.
But we have to be clear about who our priorities are and feel really good about them.
This of course will only work if you are actually happy where you are and with what you have.
If you are not happy with your wife then you need to address this and some therapy would probably help map the steps you need to take.
Tricky but life affirming business.
2006-07-25 22:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you get married if you were still thinking about the ex girlfriend?
2006-07-25 22:59:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont try to forget her, keep alive all the bitter sweet memories, sometimes it really brings a smile thinking back to all those memories, and i think it wont be a sin to keep the memories alive so long as you do not continue the relationship.
2006-07-25 22:06:33 · answer #8 · answered by khepo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey she is ur X then Y do u think???
first feel ur wife by heart, then u wont get that X thoughts.
she is ur X onli but ur wife is ALL .........
love ur present life.
DONot rewind ur past with X n ruin ur life !
take care BuDDy!
2006-07-25 23:30:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't, your memories will remains there forever, keep the good one then find a new better memories with your wife pal, don't try to fool yourself around...
2006-07-25 22:05:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋