i was under the impression he just slept with his ex cause he told me briefly so, then last night we played a game where we ask truthfully questions, then it came out he slept with 3 girls, one he didnt even know, they did it in a restroom of an airway i mean??? above all his father is a priest, i wouldve thought he knows what is right and wrong???
am i stupid now or what, was it right for him to keep it for himself???
2006-07-25 21:49:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People in general, SUCK. And that is the truth no matter what anyone says. The media plus the decaying society, help destroy certain things that shouldn't be messed with and because its sooo hard not to do those things, people rather argue against it and come up with their cute little theories to feel good about themsleves.
Of all these replies, you can grab pieces of their shoddy lil' answers and put them together to form your own. (thats right, i went there >:p )
If the thought of your guy being with 3 girls in his PAST bugs you so much, then you should think about ending what you have now, although im sure you wont be doing that anytime soon.
The thing is, one has to be comfortable enough with the partner in order to have a better chance with the relationship. Sounds like something you outta know by now doesnt it? Well, dont feel bad if youre a late bloomer to this world. If your morals are getting in the way of your lil love life, maybe you should sit and think about whats more important, theeeen, learn how to combine the two. If the boy doesnt have what it takes for someone like you, then end it because its only going to bug you and bug him out.
But if this is just his past and he (for some stupid reason) decided to just tell you about his sexual past, then look at him for what he is now and how he feels about you.
BTW. You have every right to keep your B.S. meter up. Just dont over do it or over think it. .......wtf.. did I just say all that sh*t??
Damn those Dr. Phil shows! Damn them all to hell!!
2006-07-25 22:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There comes a point in every relationship where we must ask ourselves with what I know now can I continue to work at maintaining this relationship. Now it is not uncommon for individuals to not discuss or disclose there previous sexual relationships or partners. After all we are just human. He probably saw these incidents as before your time and does not see that his past affects the way you feel however he still feels the same as he always has about you. You are not stupid for feeling that you have been deceived. However you yourself said that you were under the impression that he had only had one partner, but that was before you asked. You wanted the truth and he figured you were stable and mature enough to accept the truth. We all have pasts you never mentioned whether you have had previous partners,because it isn't relevant to how you feel about his past. Remember there are two people in your relationship both have feelings and concerns.
What difference does it make that his father is "priest" he is not his father and should never be held to a higher standard because of it. Who knows perhaps he was conceived in a restroom we are all humans and prone to the weaknesses of lust irregardless of what we do for a living. What is right or wrong can be only determined by the individual themselves. I say he was right to withhold this information just look at your reaction he expected this. reaper out........
2006-07-26 05:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times had you asked him before the game, How many girls he slept with? Oh, and his father can not be a Priest, they are not permitted any intercourse, except for little boys. So, judge lest ye be judged, and do not be the one to cast the first stone. Turn the other cheek. Forget it, it was before you, and evidently not too important to him.
2006-07-26 05:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a stupid game to play,did u really have to do that,u asked for it,by the way,it in the past,how many have u slept with yo self & how many do u see yo self sleeping with,don't bring up such game,there will destroy some thing real
2006-07-26 05:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he was right to keep it to himself. Looking at your question and the response your having now he was probably right to. If you don't want to know about someones past, don't ask. It is rare to find someone who is pure now a days. I never talk about my past and I don't ask my partners theirs, it is better that way.
2006-07-26 04:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by JFra472449 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see this is why its not agood idead to ask alot about the past. thats exactly what it is. the past. you cant change it and neither can he. as long as he is not doing it now to you (cheating or anything) whats the problem? it don't matetr if his dad is a preist either. he had some past experiences, and felt comfortable enugh to share them with you, and you put him down for it. he was honest, which you have to give him credit for.
2006-07-26 04:55:50 · answer #6 · answered by gallow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do we hav so many drama queens in here. if its in the past then what is ur problem. i think yahoo has to re-direct people under 18 to another site so that we can hav mature and real questions here.
2006-07-26 04:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by moment 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he has told u the truth and u should forgive him in sack for ur future
2006-07-26 04:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by technocrate90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey he finally totold u and u should appreciate it. he could never tell u but he did.
..and excepting that what do u want? an unexperienced man?
if he pleased 3 girls that means that he can please u too and he's sure on himself...whas wrong in that?....
2006-07-26 04:57:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its time to think for your self... Its your life... just ensure that u try to get max out of it.
2006-07-26 04:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by surya_naidu142 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋