i am in a long distance relationship and i have met someone else that i love too.....
2006-07-25 21:38:27 · 18 answers · asked by Nichole B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just to elaborate a little on the situation...one is in prison and will be until 2009 whom i have been with for 2 years...the other i just met about 6 months ago and i love as well but i feel guilty about that love......
2006-07-25 22:06:53 · update #1
Nope. You may well be infatuated with two people at the same time, but in love...honey, that only happens once at a time. Infatuation mimicks the feeling of being in love so well that those who've neve been really in love get confused thinking that it's the latter when in fact it's the former. So have a time out to decide who you really love...and forget about the other one.
2006-07-25 21:42:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes!but it was not having the same percent of love to each other.i mean your love to the another one is not as big as the other one.because i experienced being inlove to someone who is my type of a guy.while I'm having my bf.were not a long distance relationship but our relationship is a secret relationship.on our first yr of relation we had a successful relationship because we always see each other and have time to each other.until time cames that other people thinking something that we had a relationship.so to keep our relationship we should not so active in meeting each other and were not so close that time.until i met someone,whom my type and most of the quality im looking for!was on him.and also that time we have some little lover's quarrel.i dont want to hurt him and i love him too. but i feel i like to go on to the flow because i feel happy,but also sometimes i feel guilty.and the result of that was i broke two of them and be with someone far away from them.to be fair.....i lost my love i suffer too.the hard things is having sex with your bf after 30 minutes having sex to your number 2.you looks like a toy.....
2006-07-26 05:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by robelyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one to answer. I personally would find it to be heartbreaking and hard to love more than one person, and I couldn't imagine loving any one else. But i'm sure it's okay to love two people. You may be in-love with one, and just love the other. But I believe you may love qualities about each individual that the other doesn't have. Like, if you made them one they'd be perfect for you.
Whatever you're feeling, it's not wrong. Don't get worried over that. You have these feelings for a reason. Try to figure out why!
Goodluck!
PS; one answer above said that your heart only belongs to one, i agree completely. I didn't know how to say it.
2006-07-26 04:45:16 · answer #3 · answered by Seinfeld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, if you understood what "Being In Love" is then you would know that. Infatuation, lust, like, these are words use to describe the attraction to someone, but being in love is something different all together. You can love many people,IE Mother, Father, Brothers, which means you care deeply for them, you help them when ever you can, and sometimes when you can't. Being In Love with someone, is committing totally to that person, on a spiritual, sexual, emotional level that should not be shared with anyone else. Hence You can be in love with one, and just lust the other, you may just love them both, you may just be infatuated with them both, but the bottom line is, You can only BE IN LOVE with one person. Don't kid yourself, if you are sleeping with both, you are cheating! And you may not be in love with either, cause if you were in love with one, you would not need to sleep with the other. So, once more, you can not be IN LOVE with 2 people at the same time.
2006-07-26 04:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you can be in love with ten people at the same time. In our society's context this is not very acceptable, so we like to think that we are in love with only one at the time.
If it is like this, you need to really think it over if your long distance relationship is worth having. It sounds as if you are tired of it, and that maybe your "love" is really your fear of saying good bye to him and move on with your life.
How do these two statements make you feel? Which one do you agree with? Go with your heart : ) and good luck
2006-07-26 04:44:06 · answer #5 · answered by Tones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be sincere, I always believe that it is not possible to be in love with two people. If u feel u love them definately they will be two very different kinds of love. Anyways all the best my dear!
2006-07-26 04:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by Kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,sweetheart.You CAN love both at the same time but you CANNOT be IN LOVE with both at the same time.You see,when you're IN LOVE,the feeling is overwhelming and you naturally will not want to hurt this person in ANY way...is this how you feel?Answer that question and you'll have your answer.
2006-07-26 04:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by Violet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is yes and no: i just got out of that situation.
how i resolved it?
i let time pass by then i discoverd i actually wasnt IN LOVE with them both. because if you love some one you see no one else . then i fell in love with a super hottie that i met in mexico and i'm trying to find.
2006-07-26 04:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by stellina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love the world but your heart will only belong to one
2006-07-26 04:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by WW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you LOVE them both. You could just be feeling lust towards someone. But if you are positive it is real love, I will not doubt you. You could love them in different ways.
2006-07-26 04:42:31 · answer #10 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋