I like a female but she pratically never even knows i exisit how do i go about asking here to go on a date..i am a shy guy and need some help!!!! PLEASE
2006-07-25 21:25:49 · 9 answers · asked by mo200ca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say this : "Excuse me, may I ask you something?"
She : "Yes."
You : "Well, I've seen you before but I didn't know whether to talk to you or not. Would you like to talk, maybe get a cup of coffee or something ? No strings, just coffee ~ ten minutes. As friends. My treat and I'll even buy you a cookie. "
She will smile and say yes.
If she says no, mention the cookie again, then just smile and say " Well, I tried. Thanks for the cute smile. It made my day. "
Get her name, give her your phone number and tell her to call if she changes her mind about the cookie. That should get another smile out of her.
Good luck. I'm rootin' for ya!
P.S. If she acts snobby, don't bother giving her your number. You deserve better. : )
2006-07-25 21:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mary* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just notice the following. If you ever have eye contact, and she smiles (!!!), you can (and must as soon as possible, <2 minutes) talk to her for a couple of minutes, and ask her out on a date, nothing fancy, but just a cup of coffee or something. That's it, good luck.
2006-07-26 04:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by jasper k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel...they say just go and talk to her but I KNOW it's not as easy as it sounds...but..no guts no glory..and remember...like Frankie said" I did it my way"..I don't know if that helps...I just kinda wanna say that..anyways go and be a man...Trust me I know...
2006-07-26 04:33:49 · answer #3 · answered by DjNick08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask what you got to lose
2006-07-26 04:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by Carol E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hello and get to know her a bit
2006-07-26 04:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by gallow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just slowly introduce yourself, and take it day by day and then ask.
2006-07-26 07:30:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be her friend
first
2006-07-26 04:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by Sky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as her nicely
2006-07-26 04:27:51 · answer #8 · answered by boy_jam_arch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her. about something.
2006-07-26 04:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋