Ok. I have casually been seeing this guy. He is wonderful.....but......right before he bought his house, we'd spend alot of time together.......now that he bought his house (a fixer uper), he has spent every waking moment working on this house, trying to get it done and working alot of hours at his regular job.....so hardy has any time to sleep for that matter....and i hardly talk to him or see him now. He says it's not me and that he wants to see me......but he is just really busy getting this house done.....but i live 45 min from him so when I am where he is....he usually takes the time to see me only if it's for a few hours.....but i am confused......this guy is totally sweet and nice and perfect! but i never talk to him or see him much and it's driving me NUTS! I like him alot....it's really a confusing story...so is this guy blowing me off or just really busy....he says once he is done with his house.....he will have more time......any advice?
2006-07-25 21:07:43 · 11 answers · asked by Babygrl2010 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's hard for me to go there all the time......so i couldn't fix it with him.....he is sort of the type to do it for himself lol.
2006-07-25 21:11:07 · update #1
I am not needy....actually, i just tell him to call me when he has time and stuff.......and i dont' wanna call him all the time and be 'needy' lol......so i don't. I have offered to help him. actually. but like i said it's hard for ME to get there all the time and stuff....so.....he always says i can 'call him' anytime and all this stuff......we hung out on sunday...first time in like a few weeks:(
2006-07-25 21:14:10 · update #2
i think i will just wait and see after his house is done and hopefully things will pick back up....
2006-07-25 21:16:35 · update #3
DO YOU TAKE TIME TO DO MAKE UP AND LOOK GOOD? HE IS TAKING TIME TO PUT PLASTER IN HIS HOME AND MAKE IT LOOK GOOD....WHAT'S WRONG IN THAT?
DO YOU GET BUSY WITH YOUR JOB? HE TOO GETS BUSY.
DO YOU HATE IT WHEN HE IS NOT ABLE TO PAY ATTENTION TO YOU?? RECONSIDER YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM, MAY BE YOU AND HIM ARE NOT MEANT FOR EACH OTHER BECAUSE YOU CAN NOT TOLERATE HIS INATTENTION.
THERE ARE TWO THINGS THAT YOU CAN DO.
1.MEND YOUR OWN ATTITUDE, UNDERSTAND THAT YOU ARE NOT 'ONLY' IMPORTANT THING IN HIS LIFE...YOU ARE NOT OCCUPYING HIS MIND 24X7.
2. CALL OF WHATEVER CASUAL RELATIONSHIP YOU HAVE, AS YOU ARE NOT CAPABLE OF HANDLING IT. YOU NEED TO ASK THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE ON YAHOO ANSWERS REGARDING SLIGHT INATTENTION....MAY BE THIS RELATIONSHIP IS NOT WORKING OUT FOR YOU.
THINK BEFORE YOU GO FOR ANY COMMITMENT. GOOD LUCK.
2006-07-25 21:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by pranesh81 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy seems like he likes you from what you have said... I would just say that he is really busy. Why don't you try doing things around the house with him. Help him to get his place together. This will show him that you are there for him and you guys will be spending time together.
2006-07-25 21:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by anje_s2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help him with the house!! That way it gets done faster and he gets to see that you're a pretty sweet person for helping - this is assuming that you're sweet of course. When you're in love it doesn't matter what you're doing - it's just easy to be with someone that you care about and you might actually have fun.
2006-07-25 21:11:20 · answer #3 · answered by agliotti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before each and every thing do no longer attempt the "what's the time" trick! It sucks and he's gonna imagine you're an total dork! you could ask a pal of your or his to introduce you to him. If that would not artwork - attempt something diverse - use your girly charm. Smile at him even as he seems at you and if he receives it - he will communicate with you, if he would not... properly ask him does he understand the position is something and attempt to look as possibility free as you could, so that you'll not imagine you attempt to attach to him. solid success!
2016-10-15 05:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by pelt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to show you the house because you want to witness the transformation, hell, offer to help.
If you are always this needy, it may be turning him off.
2006-07-25 21:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by csucdartgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have patience. If you really care about him help him fix his house even if if you only can be there to give him verbal encouragement. but do not get in his way. Let him know that you care.
2006-07-25 21:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by KELLY S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait for a while, maybe he is making the house look nice so he can bring you there ;)
2006-07-25 21:09:53 · answer #7 · answered by bleed_black_11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is clear that his house is his number 1 priority.Don`t know what you should do.But wait:,,Don`t bother"
2006-07-25 21:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by utlcutl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fix his house with him.
2006-07-25 21:10:11 · answer #9 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smoke some weed and chill
2006-07-25 21:10:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋