Will it work being apart with your bf/gf for years?what are the effects on you?
2006-07-25 20:34:52 · 14 answers · asked by camille_19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you both trust each other and have faith in the relationship... it will work..
2006-07-25 20:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by sweetcookies710 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I do...that is how my relationship started with my guy. When we first hooked up he was going back to boston for awhile. We were only 400 miles apart, but it was still hard to deal with. I worried all the time that maybe he was looking for someone else or whatever. But I trusted him and that was all that mattered. I knew he would never break my heart. He has been very faithful to me. I was still in high school, so I had a year left before I could move to boston with him. If you can trust the person your with and believe in the relationship than anything can happen. Could happen for the best or the worst, that is for you to decide.
I have been with my bf for five years now. We started off as being in a long distance relationship and now we are together for good. No more distance and things are still going strong with us.
2006-07-26 03:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by garingercompany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a man for 2 years long distance. He would get me airline tickets every month or so (I was more free to travel than he). That was 6 years ago. We are still friends, but the Air Force kept us apart. I still love him, but Im married now to another. You can try it, but you both have to be "in" it.
2006-07-26 03:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by bran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sucks! I was in a long distance for a year and a half and I was constantly checking out other guys. Felt a little neglected. I need love love love. Sweet loving.
2006-07-26 03:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by WrkrB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me make this short and sweet. I put an ad in a magazine in 1986 for a pen pal. I live in nc and a pretty girl wrote from California. We got married in 1990. We been together ever since.
A man I know who was in desert storm back in 1991 had a pen pal, she met him , they married in 1991 and married ever since
ENOUGH SAID
2006-07-26 03:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by aguyinthewoods 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it will not work out.The effects will be sexaully build up and a lot of SEXUALLY tention as well. Also a waste off time and new BF's / GF's
2006-07-26 03:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not? I have been dating a man that I met through webdate*com and although we are world's apart we love each other so much that we don't mind the distace!
2006-07-26 06:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i don't believe in long distance relationship.
Theoretically, they say space apart creates longing, and test if love is stronger. But in real life-this space creates, doubts, fears, lies and "another life" for each person.
2006-07-26 03:40:38 · answer #8 · answered by shirley b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that there good because you'll both end up lonely.
most people in long distance relationships that I've known have lots of one night stands especially if their partner's miles away and not seen that often.
2006-07-26 03:40:31 · answer #9 · answered by anniemae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it does, 3 years apart n going strong
2006-07-26 03:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
realtionships which are based on distance,i believe they work,only on trust,chastity,purity,and sincere.Both parties have to be clean on both ends.You have to know your partner on the other end happy by remembering him on phone,e-mails etc.i believe the work when you make them work. i believe in them
2006-07-26 04:57:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋