So i basically give up the search. My life is full, but i don't have a life with women. This has caused me only to care about nothing, and nobody. Life can only contain so much, but without love, what else it there?
2006-07-25 20:29:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry, you aren't alone. You also are very young and have plenty of time left for love!! I'm 18 and a female and I've never had a boyfriend. Yes, I've dated but the right guy hasn't come along. I tend to get asked out by much older men and psychos. I have had guys tell me they liked me but they were afraid I would reject them so they never asked me. I am too shy to ask a guy myself and also for fear of rejection. I know God has a great guy for me, I just haven't met him yet. God has a plan for you too!! There is a special girl out there for you, just be patient and let God do His work!! There is absolutely nothing wrong with you, just put yourself out there, be approachable and build your confidence. God bless!! :)
2006-07-25 20:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have never had a g/f I suspect that you are very shy. There are ways to work on reducing shyness and they basically
are that you have to approach girls at least once a day and preferably more often. There are books in major book stores that give instructions on this.
The other thing is that girls/women really care about how you dress, what kind of car you drive, and how you wear your hair.
You have to wear clothes that are in fashion and have your hair
styled in a modern style thar's in fashion.
Girls also care about what kind of job you have, how much money you make, and what your long term job/career plans you have. The more of these things you have going for you, the more attractive you are to women.
The other thing is to go to where the women are. If you don't know how to dance, you should learn how. This is an excellant way to meet women and get to talk to them. They also like to do this on dates.
I think that just forgetting about it is not a good idea. If you are 19
and never had a date, you are doing something wrong and need to fix this. I think where some of these people are coming from, is that sometimes a person tries too hard to get a date and comes accross as "needy". Women like men who are confident and are turned off by someone who appears nervous or needy.
The other thing is to somehow learn what are some of the nonverbal ways that women flirt with men. Many women still expect the man to make the first move but will give subtle hints that they would like you to ask them to do something. I've always been terrible at recognizing these things. Now I'm old but if I was young again, I would spend some serious time learning about this. There may be some books on this and/or if you have a friend who is a woman, even a mother or an aunt, you can ask them about this and I suspect they would be glad to clue you in.
Because you "Say this this has caused me to only care about nothing", and, "without love, what is there?", I suspect you might be starting to get Depressed. You may be thinking that you will never have anyone and will always be alone.
This is onle 1 reason, but a good one, that I think you need to start being more assertive in this area and doing some of the things I suggested.
I have had some similar issues and wish the things I knew now, I knew at your age. Don't give up hope. You can do it.
2006-07-26 04:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, my best friend is 24 and hasn't even touched a girls boob...ok besides mine but I don't count. Everyone sees him as "the friend." You're not alone. You will find someone. I'm about to tell him that I'm in love with him and he can pretty much have me however he wants me. I'm sure you will get something similar to that soon. Just don't give up. Maybe stop looking and she will come to you.
2006-07-26 03:34:23 · answer #3 · answered by WrkrB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up --- I'm sure there is someone out there for you, just haven't found eachother yet! I'm sure you hear that all the time but just be patient. There are many men and woman that don't find a partner for many years, but remember, the longer the wait the better the suprise! You'll find her, promise!
2006-07-26 03:33:45 · answer #4 · answered by *Elle Marie* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that.
Just look at urself as a complete person.
Enjoy life and make more friends.
U will get attached sooner than u think :)
2006-07-26 04:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people who have had a gf/bf hasn`t found love at 19. So don`t worry.
2006-07-26 03:56:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMFG u r 19!!! You have your whole life ahead of you!! Drop the martyr act and go out and have fun.
2006-07-26 03:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by steveinprague 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a kid, you don't know what love is yet. Quit your whining and suck it up. You still have alot of life left. You are a babe in the woods.
2006-07-26 04:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by drummerpoet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Head up, it's usually when you stop searching that you find what you wanted.
2006-07-26 03:32:28 · answer #9 · answered by LTD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tats not a big isssue my boy u find her only wen u stop searching for her...
2006-07-26 03:34:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋