...and when I knocked on the door it took them forever to answer (the door was locked) and now they won't tell me what they were up to. How can I find out what was going on?
2006-07-25 20:17:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Do you have a birthday coming up?Is mom a skank? We need some details.
2006-07-25 20:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by Troy 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
The best measure you can take is ask your hubby about it...and he should give u a good answer if he is a trustworthy husband and if not...then u have got a problem there and it's for sure something going wrong between your mother and her son-in-law as these affairs are becoming common these days...
And to catch them in the act just do what another answerer has suggested but it's much better if u appoint a private detective to see what's actually going wrong with your hubby and his mother in law!!!
2006-07-26 03:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your mom has a been a good mother and your husband is trustworthy, than you maybe overreacting. ask yourself if there's a special event coming up, in which both parties may want to throw you a surprise. the best thing to do, is ask. both people involved are supposed to love you, protect you and have your best interest at heart. even if they wanted to surprise you with something, they'd rather be honest with you, then ever have you think they would hurt you.
if you ask and don't get a straight answer or find deviation or defensiveness, than something is definitely wrong. it sounds like this is bothering you terribly, so ask and get closure. the truth shall set you free.
2006-07-26 04:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by mangosmoothie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we sure hope it was of some kind of planning or surprise for you going on,but no matter,if they see this is really upsetting to you,they should come clean and let you in on the issue.I mean no one ever wants to think or jump to the wrong conclusions here,this is your mother and your husband that we are referring to,besides has either one of them ever gave you any reason of doubt ever before now?If you can't seem to get no where by talking to them,then i would definitely be following him or your mother to just see what is on the agenda here.For the sake of all,i wish you the best,but try not to jump to the wrong ideal just yet.Good Luck to you both!
2006-07-26 03:53:59 · answer #4 · answered by twjp1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think planning a surprise,,but with the door locked that is strange,,I would assume the worst and break away from both of them.
2006-07-26 03:23:07 · answer #5 · answered by rosie w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your b-day coming up, or some other suprise that they could be planning? Did the house smell like sex? To find out, tell them you are going out for the day or nite with a friend, then see if they lock themselves up again, if they do, you skould be concerened!
2006-07-26 03:23:48 · answer #6 · answered by lizardlover150 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what would be your moms normal schedule? your husbands? would they have any reason to be there togather that you could possably think of without being upset and thinking the worst? if you cant confront them without the anger.. then wait until you know whats happening. it may be nothing at all and your anger may cause more problems. if you feel there is something to be concerned and angry about.. like an affair.. "drop" by there again someday unannounced. but dont accuse anyone of anything without proof. talk to them like adults.
i hope it all works out for you hun.
God Bless.
2006-07-26 03:57:56 · answer #7 · answered by KATY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? Trust is one of the biggest and most important factors to a marriage. I suggest you get back to doing just that. Did you ever think they may be planning a surprise for you?
2006-07-26 04:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by lafinlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all be positive,and meditate by being introvert,divert ur attention within,it will ultimately reveal u real secrets ,whenever u step into meditation,not only what is happening behind doors,but u will come to know who is sincere to u ,but u remain to be silent even knowing every truth,otherwise the gained divinity will desert u.
2006-07-26 03:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he had sex with your mom to get even with you.you are doing other guys arnt you?giving out phone numbers at parties and now trying to get some guy's phone number from your phone company? you deserve the worst.maybe ur mom will get pregnant from him.that would be so cool.please keep us updated.
2006-07-26 04:07:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will tell, could be a surprise party. But if nothing happens dig deeper.
2006-07-26 03:25:20 · answer #11 · answered by Jenni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋