I am a single mum and I have never understood why it is so hard to get a man who can truly love me for who I am. There will be lots and lots of mind playing communicationsand finally I always end up getting hurt. This really tears one apart. I then wonder is it something or things that I do because I am a very good looking and charming lady as most of my friends tell me but I am really hoping I will get that special man who will love and adore me and I will also do the same for him. Please tell me is this too much to ask?
2006-07-25 19:55:40 · 9 answers · asked by Kate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is hard, the only explanation is you haven't met the right one yet...and by the right one, I do not believe there is "one" single person out there for us...I believe there are many, and it just depends on the time and place in your life for which one you are most compatible with. I know it is very frustrating, I am in the same boat. It seems the longer time passes, the more games get played and you are left in the dark about true intentions. Don't worry...it's just not the perfect time yet...
2006-07-25 20:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by PerfeclyImperfect 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nowadays a lot of people are putting on a mask, thus it is difficult to tell what their mind are thinking. It will require your own judgement to decide whether to trust this person or not. At the moment, your Mr Right has not appear and you should not feel discourage.
Since this person have yet to appear, you can switch your attention to your children first because taking care of your child will give you a great sense of achievement. And at the same time, you can continue to look out for your Mr Right. Although you are a single mum, you also deserve the right to find someone who is trusty and caring. Don't give up.
2006-07-26 03:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by Nanako 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even ive been through the same consequences since last 4 times & used to get in depression very fast but after a week my friends told me to stop thinkin of love and just keep makin friends arround . And now im totally out of it and m really happy wit my life so even i as a friend would suggest u to do the same. have a nice day . If ever u need a good friend im always there. my id is percyk_devilsolemate@yahoo.com . Keep smiling.
2006-07-26 03:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by Devil sole mate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. I'm the same way, but most women want the guys to treat them crap, and I don't behave like that. If I knew that a single mum like yourself cared for me, then there would be nothing that I would do for her, but alas women hate me and choose the jerky guy instead. If you live in the dallas area, then you can email me anytime.
2006-07-26 03:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by Hman069 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything comes in the right time. You don't even need to search, it just comes. Sometimes when we have somebody special we have to both work for it. We have to meet halfway by hook or by crook. Life is tough but if you finally meet your destiny, not even one trial can break you apart. It needs faith, love (lots of it), care and devotion.
2006-07-26 03:09:18 · answer #5 · answered by leelee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try me (joking)
Because such people are rare - like Giant Panda (on the verge of extinction - endangered species)
Since the chances are very low, you should enlarge your circle of interaction to increase it. You should meet decent looking ordinary people who value honesty and may be they take interest in you beyond having sex only.
Best of luck for finding such a man.
2006-07-26 03:12:55 · answer #6 · answered by nodoublespeak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should view this from a different perspective. You are letting yourself be too dependent on a man for love. You should make him dependent upon you to love him. Be the Boss, not the slave. This works best when it comes to love.
2006-07-26 03:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Payar kiya nahin jata ho jata hai dil diya nahin jata kho jata hai...
So you can not find some one, its all going to be just a co-incident and thats it. but remember
There is some one,,,,,somewhere,,,,,and one day you will get a signal and that would be it.
so forget me not on the day you find your some one.
Take Care and Have Fun!
2006-07-26 03:03:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that's just it.you know when it's true love couse he will love you the same as you love him it's hard to find this kind of love i want a girl that will love me the same as i her but we all wait it will come to you and i we hope good luck to you if it's true love he will be honest.
2006-07-26 03:12:58 · answer #9 · answered by shyshyunmee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋