I've always dreamed of the traditional wedding, me and my boyfriend both being virgins, but the guy i`m in love with isn`t a virgin anymore, Should I just quit the relationship, or get over it?
2006-07-25 19:47:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
does it bother u that he has had other sexual partners...i think u should get over it as long as your are sure of his sexual history
2006-07-25 19:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love the guy you can get over the fact about him not being a virgin! Not everyone is perfect and you dont always get what you want! Dont leave him just because of that you might end up not finding a virgin or someone you love as much as the guy your with now so dont give up! And these days kids start losing there virginity very young im talking like 12 or 13 and atleast the guy your with now didnt lie to you and tell you that he is a virgin! Id keep him if i was you! You cant always fafill your dreams how you want to!
2006-07-25 19:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do what you feel in your heart is right. If you're in love with this guy, but all of the sudden he's not a virgin anymore, does that mean that you're not, or is he cheating on you? Or you're not in a relationship with him anyway. Regardless, you should stick with your values. They are what matter. Not the sinful ways of the world.
Also, be forgiving to your future husband- whoever he may be. In this day and age, it's going to be hard to find a man who is still a virgin. One thing that I learned when I was young was not to do anything on a date that you don't want your future husband to do.
2006-07-25 19:53:08 · answer #3 · answered by jocelyn_magee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in this day and age it is very hard to find a virgin espceially one of marrying age. do u really love this guy? if you do then just get over it. as long as he understands what you want from the realtionship and as long as he isnt cheating on you with someone else, then I wouldnt worry about it. besides, when you do get to crawl in bed for the first time, it will be nice to have someone who knows what they are doing instead of both of you ending up being bumbling idiots. Hope this helps.
2006-07-25 19:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i think you should quit the relationship. if you have your heart set on something traditional and you have remained a virgin for this reason and expected the same of your boyfriend, i'm sure you made this intention clear to him from the beginning. there are plenty of men that are willing to wait for marriage and respect themselves and their partner enough to do so. do not compromise your morals, you can never get some things back...virginity is one of them.
2006-07-25 19:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by tella stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that so matter to you if he is a virgin? I mean everybody has a past. As long as you two love each other, and he cares about you. It is not easy to find someone you love and he loves you. So if you think he is the one, just go ahead to love him.
2006-07-25 20:00:12 · answer #6 · answered by honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women, please stop teaching your daughters to think this way!
Sure, why not, abandon a man over an ideal that would otherwise be an inconsequential factoid in an otherwise blissful marriage. Dump him and look for one of the other 6 virgin males worldwide.
2006-07-25 19:54:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were a virgin, I would not look for another one, first off they are increasingly rare, and secondly they are unlikely to make your first experience pleasant and memorable.
One fumbling inept lover is adorable, two is a train wreck.
2006-07-25 19:53:39 · answer #8 · answered by Norton N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loss his virginity with other lady so you have to end this relationship bcoz if the person to whom you going to marry before marriage he is doing all this so when you will get married so he will never feel tension and affraid to do that you have to end it or just listen one time of his all confession and if you think his side is correct so plz let marry with him.
2006-07-25 19:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by BOND_007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be thankful. If you are the only one he will feel like he missed out on something later. You will too find someone else. He probably cheated because of this.
2006-07-25 19:52:41 · answer #10 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if virginity is that important to you, find another guy. the fact that he is no longer a virgin indicates he cheated. again find another guy. once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-07-25 19:52:16 · answer #11 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋