Me and my bf, Nick are havin a long distance relationship. I met him throught the internet. We talked on the phone and stuff. After a 2 month relationship I had to break up with him cos my dad found out, then I got back together with him about 3 weeks later. I thought everything was okay at the time but when me and my friend Johanna, three way'd called him, he told her that he wasn't taken and that he was single. He didnt remember her and she told him that she was some chick that knew him. I was really shocked that he would say that. and now Im clearly thinkin that he probably cheated on me and that he told me all lies. I know I shouldnt go back with him but I really dont know. I'm thinkin things over. Its been a month since that called. Should I get back? Should I call him and ask him why? What happened? Did you ever cheated on me? Did you love me? Was all of this a lie to you? I dont know what to do. Part of me so dont want to be with him and a part of me kind of do. Please help me.
2006-07-25 19:36:55 · 10 answers · asked by Vasalyn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You never truly know who you are talking to over the Internet. Obviously he doesn't take you seriously and is just playing you. Listen to your father and get off the net! Sorry to be so blunt but so many bad things can happen with this situation.
2006-07-25 19:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon on you.How previous are you and how extreme your courting.?when you're nevertheless youthful beforehand 18 years previous,please concentration or concentration your attempt for reading.you could make friends with some men yet do no longer be extreme one. You broke up your relaytionship which includes your bf why.If he's not dependable dan frequently cheats you and tells a lie,i imagine you do not contact him back.opt for or search for the different guy there are multiple who're extra ideal than your ex bf.Hre reported on your pal that he remains with you that is a lie.do no longer make a relation with a lier.once you recognize he's a lier you stop to make pal with him.He must be relied on.
2016-10-15 05:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont need to read any of this to say a resounding
NO!
Long story short, do not stay with any man who does not
act like a Gentleman, and by that i mean with complete
adoration and respect. no questions asked, why do women
settle for these scumbags?
Also remember this, if you want a true gentleman you
need to behave like a lady, and that means treating him
with honor, respect, and femininity. It also means you
need to respect your modesty . There was a time when
men would bend over backwards just to be worthy
of a females company. We need to go back to that time
but first you need to be worth something, and so do
they.
Good luck
If i have confused you read this
"A Return to Modesty" by Wendy Shalit
2006-07-25 19:42:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life. Why would you go looking for pain or rejection. An online relationship is not a committment in most cases. Saying you are single for many people is "a committment, even marraige is required to some people before the stop saying they are single. Asking him why he said whatever he said is just asking for a fight. Let it go and move on. Go out with friends that you already know--- in person.
2006-07-25 19:44:37 · answer #4 · answered by lauren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people are never serious in a relationship, may be he was just having fun, anyways he is your net pal, so take it easy, dont get emotionally attached.
2006-07-25 19:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by khepo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you set him up and this wasn't fair to him. He may just be thinking of ending it with you. This doesn't mean he will cheat.
2006-07-25 19:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're crazy if you do. He is doing you a huge favor by giving you a glimpse into his character. Unless you enjoy being hurt RUN!!!
2006-07-25 19:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by Roger S M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plize stop hurting yo self,y would a guy who loves you tell other pepo his single,free,you want to know the answer,its becuz he concides u as nothing and he can get another gal.pull yo self to geather.
2006-07-25 19:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's killing u then call him and tell him all those stuff then end it!after that move ooooooooooon...dont waste ur time on him...
2006-07-25 19:42:21 · answer #9 · answered by /\/ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump a guy that cannot be trusted
u better start wondering what else his hiding
2006-07-25 19:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋