how do i tell my parents?

Question

how do i tell my parents that i am bysexual already knowing that they hate ppl unless they are striaght and have a right head????????

Answer 1

I wouldn't bother - why do they need to know? It's your life, so just be safe and enjoy it. As for having a 'right head,' bisexuality allows for one of the greatest things on the planet - the Ménage à trois - so clearly YOU have your head on just fine. :)

Answer 2

Are you positive that your sexual orientation is bi-sexual, and not just "curious yellow"? (Old term, never-mind..) If you are positive that your bi-sexual, then not only do you have to deal with your family, but also your peers... I am guessing here that you are young and in school?
If this is correct, then being gay in JR or HS is going to be very tough on you, for acceptance of an alternative lifestyle is limited.
It matters whether or not your gay, straight or bi, but it will matter when you are considered too different to be part of your chosen peer group in school.
Equally, it is unfair that IF YOUR BI that you have to hide it. The saving grace is that you don't have to hide it forever.
The reason i ask again, "are you sure" is that to divulge this info at such a difficult time in your life as adolescence is adding salt to an open wound, not a good idea. IF it is just a little curiousity, then no doubt you would agree that it not wise to say anything to anyone.
Should this be your sexual orientation, you need to maintain this part of your life completely separate from everyone and everything, at least until you are safely out of harms way. If you are a male, you already are aware of the double standard for females on bisexuality, which really stinks.
Think about this long and hard, and hopefully you will realize that now is not the time to disclose this about you. Life has rules, and while we may not agree, we do have to live with them. Should we choose to "stand up", or "out" as the case may be, we also are agreeing to accept whatever comes with that "stand". In this case, as young as I am betting you are... Don't say anything at this point in your life...

Answer 3

Well, first of all, I wish I knew how old you are. Before telling them, think on this. Young teens often have feelings of attraction to the same sex as well as the opposite. If you are around the age of 12-14, maybe you should wait a while..Your teen years are a vital time of discovery about yourself..Also, it is sad that you and your parents dont seem to have a good communicating relationship...However, after all I have said, should you go ahead and tell them, it's kind of like the saying..they will always love you, but may not always like you...I feel they would come around...One other concern I have..again, dont know your age..please practice safe sex..and always, always respect yourself first and foremost.

Answer 4

Why tell them? I sure haven't told my parents about all my sexual partners. If you end up with a dude, no harm done. If you fall in love with a girl, then I think you have to tell them. For now, let sleeping dogs lie. Who knows what will come in the future? Good luck to you.

Answer 5

dont tell them!!!there is no neeed to do that i mean y u want to tell them ,just let them find that out by them selfs and if they wanted to hate u then fine let them hate u for ur right,infact that will make them change and maybe start respect bysexual!!

goodluck

Answer 6

I've found that if you deliberately surprise people doing the most extreme thing you can, after that, they just accept the situation.

Yes, that's Exactly what I. mean invite 4 other Bi's to your house when your parents are due back from church.

Then tell us what happened.
Cheer's!

Answer 7

why tell them? do they really need to know? Keep it to yourself. I know that a part of self discovery is sharing with others, but dont share this with your parents. It would only cause problems.

Answer 8

sweety, don't tell them you're bisexual if you think they'll disown you. i know thats hard, but until you're no longer dependent on them for food and shelter and money...its safer to just stay in the closet.
if you're over 18 and on your own, tell them gently. assure them that its no one's fault and that there is nothing wrong with it. they aren't losing you, you are still you...just...you're this as well.
good luck.

Answer 9

seize the opportunity while they watching a t.v show they like, tell them with a smile and keep watching the t.v

Answer 10

Don't be scared, for one. If they can't accept you, oh well. But tell them because it's hella better than them not knowing!