2006-07-25 19:20:33 · 7 answers · asked by Shashank G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I personally don't think always you can get both love and lust.It can happen though. If that happens that is a major bonus for both.
2006-07-25 19:25:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how you define lust. If you mean just 'physical/sexual desire', it might very well always happen when you love someone. But if you mean lust in the sense of 'I have to have you/it', that is quite another matter. That is even the subject of negative commandments from God!
Jesus teaches that it is covered by the commandment 'you shall not commit adultery', and Paul writes that ultimately any improper sexual behavior or desires have nothing to do with sex and everything to do with greed - that is, idolatry (false worship).
So, no, we do not by any means have to have greedy relationships. Indeed, quite bluntly, greed and love can't exist together - you have to choose one or the other.
May God bless you with the wisdom to make right choices in your personal life
2006-07-26 02:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I separate the person from who they are, i.e. a body part, that person has an incredible bottom, or they are hot, I am separating the person from who they are to how they appear/look. I am also idealizing who they are based on the objectification of their body, i.e., because that person is hot, I would like to get to know them, or somehow they are appealing emotionally mentally because they are hot. As I am objectifying, lust shows itself in fantasy. What would I like, what would I like to do with and to them. So I would say when the idealized picture of this person is replaced with reality, IE., who they really are. You can accept and be willing to see past faults, issues, problems because Love carries no jealousy, love doesn't judge, love don't do anything for self gratitude, love gives unconditionally, love is trust, love is respect, love is truth!
2006-07-27 03:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some way, yes. At other times, no. It occurs at times when you love aomeone so much, but you haven't eeven thought of ****** him or her, but, pleeease! This is the 21st century. Today's love has to come with a little heat and squeeze!
2006-07-26 02:27:16 · answer #4 · answered by The GunnJack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better be some lust, or i can't see how you can love, unless you are talking about platonic love between friends
2006-07-26 02:22:45 · answer #5 · answered by Ralph M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , you may bet .
2006-07-26 02:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it do
2006-07-26 02:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by yog_sang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋