when i was little i used to cry when he walked into the room but i wasn't sure why help!!
2006-07-25 19:08:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2006-07-25 19:12:33 · answer #1 · answered by Jimmy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had read a theory of Meldine. (Forgive me if I spell wrong).
She says that children that hates their father are usually because that they are jealous of their mother being snatch away by the father. And this hating comes from the size of the father's private part.
I am not sure if I explain correctly or understand correctly.
But what I understand from the book is something like that.
Try reading children psychological books. you will be surprise what affects the mind of a child.
2006-07-26 03:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by redhead2734 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through a stage when my father would say hello to each other and that would end in an argument!! things will get better, maybe seek some medical help (talk to someone about it). try to resolve the difference, accept your father for who he is...my father and i just have different personailties, we see the world differently and have different belief systems, accept his and your one step closer together, good luck
2006-07-26 02:13:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know for sure, but he probably did something to you or someone you know when you were younger and you probably blocked it out, but you still have that feeling that made you cry.
If you find out then you will probably feel not better about him, but better with yourself because you were able to find peace with your thoughts.
Hope this was a bit helpful. Good luck.
2006-07-26 02:12:49 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can assume u r no longer a little so u can judge by urself if u hate ur dad or not.....another stupid question but thx 4 the points
2006-07-26 02:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably at one point or another did something to you or someone else that made you fear him. You might not remember that exact moment, but it probably does exist. Go get hypmotized and maybe you can figure it out
2006-07-26 02:11:31 · answer #6 · answered by Noah's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he hurt you. I used to do thge same when my moms freind use to come over. I'd cry and hide. Years later i remembered that he abused me.....but i had blocked it out.
or maybe he is just an a$$ hole
2006-07-26 02:11:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love. Hate is a very strong word.
2006-07-26 02:12:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you hate him because you unknowingly want to be with your mother and he is the only thing between you and your mother
and the fact he is the silverback male
2006-07-26 02:15:14 · answer #9 · answered by angry mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's not much to go on. Did he abuse you either mentally or physically? I think you should talk to a psychiatrist.
2006-07-26 02:11:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋