I recently had my heart broken by a guy I thought "loved" me. Can anyone give me some advice on how to get over him?
2006-07-25 18:58:54 · 18 answers · asked by Manda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hang out w/friends. don't sleep around w/rebound guys. that only complicates things.
2006-07-25 19:01:19 · answer #1 · answered by paoakalani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing you can really do, Im going through a divorce, because he lied all the time, and I fell out of love with him, and I'm still not all the way over it, but I know it takes time, taking a breath at a time, KEEPING YOURSELF BUSY. Hanging out with friends and family alot, I opted to moved in with a friend, instead of going out and getting a place by myself right off to help, plus I work as much as I can. I feel you girl, but it does get better, one day you'll look back and wonder why you were so scared and sad.
2006-07-25 19:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do whenever you get your heart broken is to move on and start over. Hang out with your friends and keep your mind off of "him/ it"...The worst thing you could do is to jump in and start serious stuff again. Enjoy being single for awhile, and remember, your only young once. So go to parties, flirt with random people, do crazy things, take roadtrips to weird places. do everything you want to do.
2006-07-25 19:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by afflicted9160 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont just sit down and eat a tub of ice cream like almost every girl does. But, to get your mind off of him, hang out with friends, go to the mall, play video games, take a nap, shower, read but this is what i did. My ex-bf broke up with me because we dont see each other over summer break yet we are going to the same highschool so i really dont care about him. But i thought he loved me but i guess not. I am kinda gothic and punk so i just plainly kicked his *** for no reason and he needed it because he cheated on both of my friends. But, just try not to think of him. Me, i just made a voodoo doll of him and he is in pain alot. Hope i helped.
2006-07-25 19:04:40 · answer #4 · answered by flamingfire159 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do things for YOU. Join a club, take a class, go to the gym and get super sexy, get a new hairstyle.. whatever. Hang out with the girls. Just don't let him bring you down. It sounds like he was a jerk anyway. It takes time, but soon enough you'll forget about him, or realize that he isn't worth your pain.
2006-07-25 19:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really are hurting you would want the actual surefire way to get over him, which sad to say is lots of alcohol, clubs, and parties. And thats the only thing that truely works. Not any chocolate, mirrors, or spinning classes. give me a freakin break.
2006-07-25 19:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, In the words of Shakespeare or somthing similar ; ) "In order to get over a love once must find another" I think this is the best advice in your situation.
2006-07-25 19:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by Jason D H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you and feel really bad for you what I would do is mope and cry it out out then clean yourself up look in the mirrior and tell yourself their is someone better out there 4 u and your ex didn't deserve you. That's what I would do because their really isn't a cure for a broken heart
2006-07-25 19:01:44 · answer #8 · answered by phillyhottie000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your lost love may seem so tragic now, but relationships come and go. Don't worry, eventually you'll become jaded like the rest of us and breakups will just roll off your back.
2006-07-25 19:44:14 · answer #9 · answered by richard457 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby and eat some chocolate. And the next time some guy comes along, don't give up your hobby and chocolate for him!
2006-07-25 19:02:24 · answer #10 · answered by askme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me (and it has worked) imagine that they moved to some far away place like siberia or somewhere where they cant keep in contact with you... thinking that they are somewhere else you will remember them but it somehow makes life easier to get on with.... rather than knowing they are right near you and you cant move on with them there... hope i helped a little... may sound silly but just consider it
2006-07-25 19:03:27 · answer #11 · answered by fuzzywishes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋