she is my boardmate.one day,i heard someone's crying over the next room.i found out that RHea(not the real name) was crying!
i opened the window widely and noticed that she was hurting herself physically!
she hit the bed by using of her head!
So,i entered her room quickly and asked what was her problem.She told me that,she didnt have the money for her tuition fee.So i've got pitty with her!
does she have a mentally disorder?or is it a psychological effect of being deppresed?
i told her that it wasn't a biggest problem.And she stopped crying!
but,i was shocked whe she told me that it is repeated every time she has a problem!
2006-07-25 18:51:15 · 6 answers · asked by radiant_star888 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
Depression is anger turned inward; in the case she is not turning it totally inward, she is turning it on herself physically. At minimum, she does need some counseling to learn how to deal with her anger at disappointments other than hurting herself. As she stopped quickly when you pointed out her problem wasn't the biggest in the world it sounds likes like she would respond very well to treatment and giving herself permission to get angry when things don't work out, but that it is just life...it does not make her a bad person and she does not need to punish herself over it.
Encourge her to seek professional help. Many universities offer some sort of counseling free of charge.
2006-07-25 19:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs psychological help. Any form of self-injury can escalate. Encourage her to talk to a counselor and don't try to solve the problem yourself.
2006-07-25 18:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by nwtobe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is very depressed and needs help she should go to a doctor and get some medicine for her depression before she really hurts her self
2006-07-25 19:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she has a mental disorder.
2006-07-25 18:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by <3pirates<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definate emotional problems. you should consider marrying her one day. your life will never be boring.
2006-07-25 18:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by quikzip7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur friend needs help.......get her help....its not normal...
2006-07-25 18:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋