I'm not entirely sure she is but was told by one of her friends and I feel it too. After all it is a long distance relationship...
2006-07-25 18:46:59 · 15 answers · asked by LoverBoy89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If a friend told you, i would ask her first. Dont listen to peoples 2nd hand knowledge, you need to talk to her. Long distants doesnt work most of the time.
2006-07-25 19:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships where the other is cheating is kind of tricky. Just because her friend says it, it might not be true, you'll have to get some type of proof. Her friend could like you and want you herself.
I am currently in a long distance relationship and sometimes I worry about things like this....My boyfriend has a lot of female friends from all over the place and so I do get jealous and think those thoughts, and I think that since I'm 3 states away he could easily bring a girl into his house and cheat on me. But then I think that I'm close to his family mainly his parents and they own the house across the street from his. They would see anything going on and he and his mother are close and she would tell me if he was cheating because she doesn't believe in that sort of thing.
I have faith in him and our relationship, I just can't let my past relationship problems get in the way of my thinking about him. He's a great guy, one of the best I've ever known.
2006-07-26 01:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are hard .She must be lonely and let's face it there is nothing you can do about that from where you are. Make sure she is cheating for real. Maybe the friend that told you she was cheating wants you and is just saying that? Find out for sure. If she is say good-bye to the hassle!
2006-07-26 01:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, approach her slowly... you don't wait someone who isn't ready to end the relationship to be on your back. Find a quiet setting-- couch, dinner table
"(gf's name), we need to talk about where our relationship is going. This is very difficult, but their are some chinks we have to smooth out. (FYI: don't tattle on the friend)
Option A: you still love her and want the relationship to continue... This is a long-distance relationship which I have put alot of thought into. I love you deeply, but it puts alot of strain on the both of us. We need to find some way to stay together. PLease understand that a strong commitment is needed if our relationship is to stay together.
Option B: this is a long-distance relationship, and I feel it is not going the way we planned it to go. Please understand that I need time to rethink this out. We are separated emotionally and physically by the distance, and I cannot handle the pressure of being away from each other. It gives you a chance to meet other people. It is just too far for us to get closer together. Please understand that a commitment is needed that is difficult to keep.
I hope this helps, dude! =)
Breaking off the relationship is best for a relationship this far, unless you move closer. Do want your better judgement tells you. LOVE...
2006-07-26 01:58:02 · answer #4 · answered by starrynight107 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to decide what kind of relationship you want. If it is long distance and you are ok with an open relationship (it's possible) than you really don't need to say/do anything. If you are not the type to have an open relationship, than you need to let it go and move on. But don't go by what the freind says...ask her directly. Then ask yourself what you really want. Don't stay in a relationship that isn't giving you what you want, just for tthe sake of having one. You're better off alone, and availabel for someone who is more in to being monogamous....unless, as i said you can hang with an open realtionship and dating more than one persona at a time (which is not as bad as it sounds, however, everyone has his/her preference.
2006-07-26 01:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like her "friend" is more of a friend to you, or wants to be. Are you sure she is telling the truth? Women can be so evil. If you do believe it, just be upfront about it. If you decide you want to start dating other people tell her. She will be relieved if she is cheating. Like you said, after all it is a long distance relationship. It sounds like you do not put much stock in it yourself. Good Luck.
2006-07-26 01:53:43 · answer #6 · answered by yowhatsup2day 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not everyone cheats in a long distance relationship... but before you do anything, be 100% positive that she really is cheating... then if she is, i say dump her
2006-07-26 01:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say it isnt working out cuz of the long distance thing and say u 2 r thru
2006-07-26 01:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by sk8chik1300 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want her to hurt, just be disappointed. people can get defensive and angry if you say something really mean, but if you just go "I really, really thought you were better than this. I was so wrong." and act sad about it, it'll hurt her bad. But if you want to take your feelings out on her, just b*tch her out. she deserves it.
2006-07-26 01:51:19 · answer #9 · answered by Natalia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex with her one last time and as soon as your done tell her to get the hell out of your bed.
2006-07-26 01:49:45 · answer #10 · answered by kurleylovescheese 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋