My best friend (who's a guy) and I have been inseparable for just over two years. He hasn't dated anyone in that time, but I've been in two pretty short relationships. I've asked him why we don't 'date' and he says that we've been friends for too long and it would be weird. This is a guy I could marry, and when I date other guys I feel so guilty. Is there any way to get him to see this and fall for me? I know it's a long shot, but I don't want to live without him!
2006-07-25 18:40:36 · 23 answers · asked by way_2_short84 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I were you, I would give him time. Stay his friend, let him date other girls and realize that he cant find anyone else like you. In the mean time, keep dropping hints that your interested in him. Hopefully, he'll fall for you and you'll live happily ever after!
2006-07-25 18:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by Riss 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He's either not into you, or he is shy. If he's not into you, then you've got no chance, and you never did. If he's shy, you've got to make the first move, because he obviously won't if he hasn't in two years. SO your options are two: 1. Do nothing, and nothing will happen. or, 2. Make the first move and have the greatest or worst day of your life. Pretty much 50/50. But hey, like everything in life, you'll never know if you don't try. Isn't that what life's all about? Go for it
2006-07-25 18:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anthony T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This always seems to happen when guys and girls r friends. It has happened to me, but just the opposite, the guy liked me. Ur just going to have to tell him how u feel about him and how long u have had the feelings. Don't leave anything out. Tell him to just give it a chance if he's not sure about it. Set a time, say 3 months. If he doesnt see it going anywhere then just remain friends and move on. good luck.
2006-07-25 18:48:41 · answer #3 · answered by kimmy209 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u saying this guy is perfect and he hadnt dated anyone in two years
wll that only mean one thing
he love u too
see the thing is the time u have been with him he has never felt the need of some one else, u r the all to him
when u did ask him that y dont we date u must have made it sound like a joke like" oh we r so perfect together y dont we date"
and he must have laughed on it say" nice joke it would be wired"
the thing is coz u dated 2 other guys he realy doesnt no that how u feel abt him so he just isnt taking the risk of telling u how u feel coz he may lose u forever
i would say give him some strong hinting ina serious way, spent more time
the best move can be
watcha movie together at ur place on the couch and leann ur head on his shoulder and get all comfy got it
seduce him girl
he is all for the taking
cheers
2006-07-25 18:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hrmmm...that's tough! Try dropping really subtle hints. Like since you guys are such close friends, tease him and when he reacts just be all, "AW, you know I love you!" and see his reaction. Or if some random girl is hitting on him and he looks uncomfortable, just go over there, put your arm around his shoulders, and be all, "Hey, baby, what's up?" and the girl will probably go away after that, and then jsut be all, "Oh, didn't you know, you're my boyfriend now!" totally teasing him. If you feel guilty for dating other guys, DONT. If you dont like them, dont DATE them. Hope you guys get together! :D
2006-07-25 18:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by Drop of Golden Sun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, he won't, and you'll only hurt him and yourself. Tell him how you feel, and what you guys should do about it.
2006-07-25 18:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd marry my best friend. Only problem is he's gay and I'm a lesbian. But I feel ya honey.
2006-07-25 18:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by Chelsea 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he said it would be to weird then chances are it won't happen.
In time he might see he has feeling then the two if you can give it a try. Good Luck.
2006-07-25 18:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by Nonna2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually the best relationships stem from the best friendships. Let him know you two are so close that you could handle it if things didn't work out. But tell him how you feel and if he hesitates, seduce him.
2006-07-25 18:44:08 · answer #9 · answered by tamitones1978 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r in the same boat as me. you can talk to him, and maybe ya'll will be a good couple cuz thats how i am w/my best guy friend but i recomend wait b/c you dont want to ruin a good thing, wait for him to develope feelings for u, eventually he will, just dont rush it and let him take his time. just be careful b/c friendships like this are rare.
2006-07-25 18:44:32 · answer #10 · answered by Angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋