i just recently went on a school trip with a guy, and i grew to like him during the trip. we hooked up for a short while, but he's not the flirty/open type, so i have no idea if that was just a one time thing for him. i really like him, and i try talking to him, but i never get the confidence to tell him that i like him. what should i do? should i tell him? if so, how do i do it??? help pleasee!!
2006-07-25 18:36:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just flat out tell him... doesnt really matter how... a note a text on phone or in person... the thing is if you are shy the best way is not in person... plus with him being shy this is probably better for him too.... write it out for yourself if you want to tell him on the phone... and just read it.
2006-07-25 18:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by fuzzywishes 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Definitely confrontation is the best possibility. It clears up any ackwardness and honestly you have nothing to lose but so much to gain. I don't know when and how would be the best time but I would say anytime and anywhere as long as you tell him what you feel. Call him up or sit him down in person. Just honestly, chances are that you won't regret telling him the truth.
I think you should do it one on one and not through email so that he can tell you what he feels right off the bat and doesn't have time to make up anything. Good or bad. I know it's scarier this way but you'll be proud of urself.
2006-07-25 18:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by Doobles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sort of had this problem. Trust me, it's a LOT easier to tell a guy you like him if you send him an email saying that. That way, you don't have to face being rejected to your face. Just make sure he's not the type of person who would pass around an email before you click send! Good luck!
2006-07-25 18:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by Drop of Golden Sun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him to just hang out. If he likes you he will obviously say yes. He will also appreciate the fact that you did the asking scoring you brownie points. If he doesn't like you, at least it was done in a friendly manner and you won't feel awkward around him in the future.
At a later date after hanging out for at least three times, if you’re up for it, tell him you like him more than a friend.
2006-07-25 18:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by coolchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to hang out with you one day, be really close to him, reach over in the movies or something and grab his hand but keep looking at the screen, and when ya guys get out, tell him that you like him, it'll be a lil harder than to just blurt it out but you gotta be open with the guy, or he'll never know.
2006-07-25 18:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open up a close friendship with him. Soon, it will progress into something nice. Be patient.
2006-07-25 18:39:02 · answer #6 · answered by Marlo M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear a low-cut shirt, or something sexy. Then smile a lot at him and touch him on the arm or shoulder...
2006-07-25 18:39:49 · answer #7 · answered by m_diddy04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be straight forward and tell him how u feel and see what his response is
2006-07-25 18:39:55 · answer #8 · answered by SEXXYDARKCHOCO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he would like to comeover for a movie.
2006-07-25 18:42:21 · answer #9 · answered by ash_m_79 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep talking to him and hanging out with him and hopefully it'll just happen..(again) Good luck! :)
2006-07-25 18:40:19 · answer #10 · answered by hello hello! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋