I have been with my guy for 8 yrs on and off. We moved in together a year ago and now I can't stand him. He never wants to go out and if I go without him he gets mad and he sometimes snaps on my , but we do have our good times also and he'll be super nice and caring. The thing is Im only 22 Yrs. old and Im not sure what to do at this point With the relationship. I'm happy 60 % of the time and sad the rest... Anyone??
2006-07-25 18:32:22 · 8 answers · asked by B. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to do what your heart is telling you. If you think you want to be with this guy for the rest of your life and that you will be happy with him, then I suggest you stay with him. But if neither of you are going to be happy in the future, why waste away any more of your life on something that doesn't make you happy. Nobody can decide for you, you have to do what you think is right.
2006-07-25 18:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 1⤋
Well listen, If A guy starts snapping on a woman and she just takes. It will get worse and worse. Then sometimes turn into hitting. What I see is he's beginning to get a streak of jealousy. If you let this continue. Eventually your relationship will end in some form or another. I suggest maybe stay with a female family member for a couple of days. Then go home and stop sexual contact for awhile. It will stop. But if it starts up again. For your own good. Get out.
2006-07-26 01:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by lovely soul with insite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to your boyfriend about this and really get the stuff that makes you unhappy off your chest and let him know how you are feeling. He might not know that you're unhappy because most of the time you are happy. Just let him know and see if he's willing to change somethings about himself, but you may want to stop going out without him because when you're a couple you don't necessarily go out to a club without your other half.
Good Luck!
2006-07-26 01:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think people should live together unless they are planning on being married soon. But if you plan on staying with him and maybe marrying him this is what you should expect. Once he has you on lock, forget about outings and stuff. Those are tactics used just to get a foot in the door.
2006-07-26 01:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by Big Daddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay home and be miserable or go out and have fun, then get yelled at when you get home.......hhhmmmm. I would have to say move on, it isn't worth the mental abuse and the trying to please him. Its about making yourself happy. If you are pretty much miserable with him now, it will only get worse later.....TRUST ME! Leave him and spare your self the misery. Be happy, lose him.
2006-07-26 01:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad acted the same to my mom when they moved in together. She didnt do anything about it, and its gotten worse. Now shes miserable. Tell him that its bothering you, and if he doesnt let up, ditch him. You dont want to be miserable.
2006-07-26 01:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by Riss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is going to be hell for you if you will continue with this type of peronality , he loves to keep you as a slave , and slavery is a curse in humanity , pl do run away to protect your own dignified identity .
2006-07-26 01:38:33 · answer #7 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave....you're comfortable w/him but you're not happy.....focus on being happy and finding someone who you're more compatible with...
2006-07-26 01:40:06 · answer #8 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋