love is confusing, it's ups and downs... Then why we love each other but problems always come out?
2006-07-25 18:17:40 · 8 answers · asked by Quensi3 Granizewska 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Community Service
To me, if you have to ask, the answer is no. But then, maybe that's just because I got lucky at long last, and My Steve and I had over 20 good years together.
I also think that your mind and your heart have to work together on this. If your mind is saying, "but he's dishonest, he's bad-tempered, he has no respect for you," then don't let your heart get carried away.
A very wise magician said "Love is the law; love UNDER will." Will under love is obsession; very dangerous stuff. Make sure your mind informs your heart, just as surely your heart will cry out to your mind. Get them to agree, and you will have the right match!
2006-07-25 18:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some ways is if the person desires you as much as you desire that person, if you feel like your heart's going to pop out of your chest, if you find yourself wanting to spend all your time with that person, if you have enough things in common, especially personality, just to name a few. Also, faithfulness is another key.
As far as problems, most relationships have their ups and downs; it's what you do with them that counts. But sometimes people do things that could easily be avoided. No one's perfect, but some things can easily be prevented, like cheating or abusing. People also got to know how to compromise when it comes to differences.
2006-07-26 01:24:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All us wants to love and be love in return.but sometimes we love somebody because we want to have somebody to be there, to listen those dull stories, to wipe your tears away. Love needs to be felt. You have to close your eyes so you could feel what's inside your heart. You must also use your brain in decidingcritical things. Your love must be pure so you will be happy. You have to be true to yourself. Love the person who will you more than your love for him. Love is a very nice feeling and all you have to do is to be honest and loyal to your love one.
2006-07-26 06:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by cristy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love, or lust, or just comfort? sometimes hard to tell. True love are the only ones that last (or 2 very tolerant people). How to tell? You usually don't figure it out until it's too late.
2006-07-26 01:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by warriorn639mr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u find the answer let us all know!
Always keep the bad ones an push away the good,
story of my life ;-(
2006-07-26 01:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by paddymac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I woke up one morning and realised that i DIDN'T want to live without my husband.
It's not that i can't live without him because i can and we both know it. It is a choice. My life is better because he is in it.
We have overcome a lot of problems and we are trying to put in a lot of effort to keep ourselves happy.
I think we have a lot of problems because its hard to live in such close proximity to another person without friction happening.
You know they are right when you can work through those problems and forgive them, vice versa.
2006-07-27 19:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by jenny c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because ,,you just know, natural,,,like same things, love each other as they are, everyone has their ups and downs, and if your partner really loves you, he will stand by you no matter what??
2006-07-29 01:48:18 · answer #7 · answered by madmarie666@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask.
2006-07-26 11:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by SUPER-GLITCH 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋