she's getting in the way and is our number one reason for all our argument, how do i get her off my back? just becuze she saw me pay for him and his beother ONCE, she tells everyone I pay EVERY time and that he's gay becuze we've been together 4 years, and I've choosen to stay a virgin till marriage, but it doesn't mean we don't fool around all together, I'm at my wits end, what do i do?
2006-07-25 17:59:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
your sister is trying to tell you some thing, i would listen to her. one day you might have to chose between him or your sister and when you find out what he is realy like you may not like it, but you will be stuck with him and have no one to back you up. my dad's sister did this, she had a boy freind that she loved and thought that he loved her. my dad, his parents and his other sister did not like her boy freind. she said that they would never see her again if they did not let them get married, so they did. and 1 week after that he beat her, my dad's family told her that she had to live with her choice and stay with him, so time after time she was beaten, one day he left and got in some trouble with the law, and we never heard any thing since. if my aunt had listened to her family she would have avoided a lot of pain and suffering. dont go the same way she did.
by the way, they had been dating for 5 1/2 years, and never had a problem till they were married.
2006-07-25 20:49:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, I had this while i exchange into sixteen-17. i exchange into going out with a guy who's sister hated me. She never informed me so, yet she made it very very clean via her movements. It became out that she exchange into bitter and jealous of our dating and our infants. She were single for an prolonged time (she exchange into 23) and he or she even have been given knocked up while she exchange into sixteen and felt she had wasted her young infants, so did no longer prefer to work out us having relaxing while she had multiple duty at our age. it may additionally be that she suspects which you manage your bf. i be attentive to that older sisters and mothers in specific situations tend to work out their son's gf as being manipulative, because of the fact they have been at that age. What i could do is, truthfully have a communicate inclusive of your bf, unlike you're tattling on her or something, yet merely enable him be attentive to that she has reported this (and reported to no longer say something to him). it may be worse for the dating in case you stored it to your self, because of the fact if your bf by risk properly-knownshows out, you will could clarify why you ought to no longer be open and honest with him interior the 1st place. i could particularly ask him to no longer confront his sister, yet merely merely remember to don't could spend too lots time round her. If he cares approximately you, he will comprehend. 'Bout the hating? do no longer subject too lots. no longer anybody in this international is gonna such as you, and it seems she has no real reason to hate you, so this is a few thing in HER it quite is misguided, no longer in YOU. that's in case you're telling the reality and are not antagonising her! lol good success.
2016-11-03 00:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you're really smart to have decided to stay clean until the wedding ring. That's really good of you, because so many people dont realize how important it is to stay clean.
Ignore your sister, she has no right to get into your personal life. You need to tell her that she needs to get out of your personal life because you don't get into her's. Tell your boyfriend to ignore your sister and that you're sorry she seems to be making him mad too.
2006-07-25 18:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible that your sister is jealous. What you need to do is have a firm conversation with her. I know she's your sister but you need to sit her down and tell her that what she's doing is gettin on your last nerve and that she needs to pack up the jealousy or whatever it is and be on her way because you are not feeling it. You need to bevery firm to let her know that this is no joke and that you are tired of it.
~Rickeisha
2006-07-25 18:04:15 · answer #4 · answered by Rickeisha AKA Keisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about your sister.... when or if yall get married she's not going to be around and if yall rrly love each other then you wont givw a flying flip about wht others say;.
2006-07-25 18:04:27 · answer #5 · answered by TNQE H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your sister really loves you and you explain how much your boyfriend means to you and how her speculations are incorrect, she should be able to get over it and accept that you love him.
2006-07-25 18:03:41 · answer #6 · answered by onanist13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your sister about it
ask her why she won't get off your case
if she cares about you she'll understand the way you feel about the reationship u and your guy have, and she'll stop getting into your buissness
2006-07-25 18:24:05 · answer #7 · answered by Monica13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's your sister, listen to her! Dump the chump!
2006-07-25 18:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...she sounds pretty immature.u should move out and ignore her
2006-07-25 18:04:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't dating him you are.
2006-07-25 19:03:18 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋