opinions please!?

Question

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ok so my boyfriend of a year and a half dumped me the other day and told me he just didnt feel the same about me. he told me the reason for this was because when we got into fights ide say hurtful things, (ie; "I dont know how much longer I can take this") everyone seems to think he dumped me because he thought I was going to dump him(?) I feel terrible and can't get over it. I've talked to a mutual friend who says that he is depressed about this. but to me its just talk. I called him tonight and asked to meet up with him tomorrow for a quick lunch. i want to get him back and i need some advice.. anything will help.

I am done with the people who say "you just need to move on" because there is always hope. unless he tells me flat out we will never see eachother again. I've seen people break up and get back together. so please any help will do..

Answer 1

Been there Done that!

Honey, you go and try to talk to him about it, and work things out. If it's true love.. Love will prevail!

I'm glad you wrote what you did in the last paragraph... Because you don't want to be desperate either.

If he truly cares for you, he will hear you out, and attempt to work things out. BUT, do remember to take things slowly... LOVE doesn't need to be rushed... it will all come together naturally and in it's own time.

Good luck babe! ;o)

Answer 2

Ok, First off, ignore what your friends are telling you, the real source is him, not your friends. Talk to him and see how he really feels, if he really doesn't feel the same about you as he did before, then that's just something that you will have to take in and live with. But depending on what he says, the rest is up to you and what you want to do, how you want your life to be. With him, or without him. Follow your gut feeling, that is stronger than your heart. I believe anyway. I hope you can figure things out, remember talking to him is important if you want to know the truth. Good Luck hun! :)

Answer 3

We've probably all been here before. What I didn't do was find out where it all went wrong and why. I moved on and it hurt so badly.

If I were you and had a second chance tell him how you feel about him and how its made you feel not having had him in your life the past few days. Be open and honest. If he doesn't respond then you know there is no chance of making it.

I wish you luck and give you the strength to get the outcome you desire.

Answer 4

yea have ya little talk
ask yorself why do you say the hurtful things in the first place.
i would think it a bit more than the take this line.
you need to decide if he is what you really want in a man and accept any faults he may have that you could accept.
then there would be no need for hurtful lines
you have to know without a doubt that this is who you want

mind you if ya only under 18 forget it all and move on

Answer 5

Since he has agreed to the lunch you are off to a good start. Just be honest with him, tell him how you feel about him and explain that you think the two of you can make it work if you give it another try.

Answer 6

tell him how you feel be honest tell him your putting your heart on the line. be big enough to make the first move, that way your either back together or you know he doesnt ever want to get back together. take a chance and if he has any feelings at all he will appreciate it. good luck.P.S. i think theres hope or he wouldnt want to meet you at all.

Answer 7

u go n have a talk with him and u both should tell ur problems to each other n solve them together. this might help. good luck.

Answer 8

you should go to lunch with him and just tell him how you fell

Answer 9

go girl!
But.........
"I DON'T LOVE YOU ANYMORE"
if these words came out of his mouth....got no choice but move on!

Answer 10

lol