This guy is DETERMINED.I told him time and time again that my heart is with someone else but he`s not budging. Plus I feel like he barely knows me because we just started conversating about a month ago and he is already convinced that I am his new found love. What do I tell him?
2006-07-25 17:36:40 · 5 answers · asked by soulpoet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, I know what you mean. Time ago a guy I had just met asked me out, saying he loved me. At that time I was talking to someone else so I said no. We still talked, but it was kind of awkward. About half a year later he calls me up one day and asks me out. By that time, I had just gotten out of a relationship and was at no state to start dating again and I told him and explained to him. He kept telling me he could help me forget. He was almost literally begging me to go out with him! I felt so bad but I couldn't do it. Two days later he called and said he had a new gf! lol I was glad cuz I thought now he would leave me alone. But no, about another half year later he called me again saying he wanted to be with me and stuff! The guy is nuts! I've tried saying no to him nicely but he doesn't get it, so I suggest that if you tell this guy, tell him nicely but firmly so he'll get it the first time. Otherwise, he'll always be after you. If you're convinced it's not going to happen, tell him so but don't be mean.
2006-07-25 18:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by Curious_Camo_Jess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww you sound very sweet to no longer favor to harm her. i imagine the perfect aspect to do is to hitch up for a espresso with her and say that you imagine she is an fantastically good female and element out some thing particular, yet that you're feeling it honest to inform her that you don't love her in that way and may want to purely ever favor to be acquaintances. it is going to harm her, yet once she recovers she will have a good time with it. you would not have performed alongside and flirted decrease back. it truly is devious. So in case you end flirting decrease back for some weeks, she might want to get the hint. If no longer, meet for espresso and tell her. It wont be easy yet its the right aspect to do. Thats large you fancy some different person. Its no longer about how conventional they're that makes you fancy someone. Its only how love is! You cant %. and choose. It only takes position.
2016-11-26 00:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After telling him time and time again. Tell him that you just want to be friends and time will tell if it's meant to be it will happen. If he doesn't stop than just stop talking to him..and tell him your trying not to hurt him, but he is hurting u
2006-07-25 17:41:12 · answer #3 · answered by Justwondering 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that you just don't feel that way about him. if he won't budge, tell him the hard way, i had this guy ask me out time and time again, but he wouldn't leave me alone until i plainly said "NO!!"
2006-07-25 17:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by momo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to be gentle, but if that doesn't work, be very frank with him. Tell him you are absolutely, 100% NOT INTERESTED!
2006-07-25 17:39:15 · answer #5 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋