ok so i met this guy(super cool) and we exchanged numbers on the day we met, which was a friday. so i actually waited to call him to tell him what a good time i had hanging out with him, and i left a message. so later on he left me a message saying how he wanted me to come and hang out with him. so i called him back that nite ( he didn't pick up). then he called me, so i called him back to tell him i couldnt hang out. i called him three times and i just met him, is that crazy? i really want to get to know him more though. am i being too aggressive?
2006-07-25 17:05:11 · 10 answers · asked by tinyone 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, what you were basically doing was playing phone tag. If you had called three times, on your own, then that may have been a little pushy. But that's not what happened, is it. You called him, he called you, you returned his call, all very normal.
If the next time you meet him, you jump all over his body, and make wild passionate love to him, NOW that's aggressive, lol.
So relax, what you did was cool.
2006-07-25 17:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by johnb693 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well being a girl, its natural to be aggressive when you really like a guy... I dont blame you it happens to the best of us. Yes calling so often is irritating to most guys or so I've heard... Try and tone it down as best you can.. but just have fun with it!
2006-07-25 17:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by USCfemme10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all. you both are having a lack of communication right now. If it were an everyday thing where you are calling him nonstop than that would be freaky but as of now you are showing him "hey i like you and i want to fit you in my schedule" Stop worrying, just dont let it happen everyday!!! I think you are doing fine though
2006-07-25 17:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by tweedle dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might be getting a bit too agressive, but not really because he did call you back each time... i always call my boyfriend at least 3 times a day.. but we've been going out and known each other for a long time... you might wanna try not calling as much for a little bit, or stay by your phone so you dont miss his call...
2006-07-25 17:10:30 · answer #4 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sounds like you called several times for different reasons and not just to see how hes doing .......so its ok
2006-07-25 17:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, stop stalking him.
2006-07-25 17:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by Bohica S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably in another relationship or his cell batt is dead.
2006-07-25 17:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, much too agressive.if you come on too strong, you may scare him away.
2006-07-25 17:08:15 · answer #8 · answered by retrac_enyaw03 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is called stalking
2006-07-25 18:17:18 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no.
that's great.
I'd love that if it happened to me
2006-07-25 17:08:07 · answer #10 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋