feel flattered or what?
2006-07-25 16:32:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In this world it is usually the man who has to do all the initiating of a relationship. So my first reaction if a girl approaches me and says that she loves me is to feel, yes, flattered. The more beautiful she is, the more flattered I become. The more sincere she is the more honoured and lucky I feel. If she was the dream girl I had been eyeing - My life would begin from that moment on.
If she is not known to me before, I will also be a little suspicious. Why me? Is she a little unbalanced? My heart will want that not to be. A part of me will also say to myself "Oh don't tease me, girl, its cruel!!! This does not happen often, are you sure its ME ME ME you talking about????" If this could only be happening for real !!! Pinch me somebody quick !!! God don't let me wake up!!!
But if she is not attractive but sincere and likes herself, I will surely commend her for her bravery and i would still feel flattered and honoured. It takes a special woman to be able to do what she did. I will surely ask her if she will be willing to be my friend first and see where that brings us to. But whatever the outcome she will surely be a friend for life for blessing me with that line that day. Not many women do. So I'll love her for that.
2006-07-25 17:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If my girl Approached me and told me she loved me, It would make my day a million times better. But Unfortunately we are not together right now. So to everyone out there that is in love and a relationship, Don't ruin, Don't fight its not worth it. You may be mad at the person at that second but, When you lose someone you Love It hurts like hell. So hold on to your loved ones and show them that you do care. Those three words can change someones life forever.
2006-07-25 16:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by RKF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would fell flattered if it was like, a really interesting girl. But if some strange looking girl that i could never see going out with says that, id call the police.
2006-07-25 16:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by Gage E 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first off, I would hope that I knew who she was, and not some whacko.
If it was a friend, and I didn't feel the same way towards her, I guess all I could and would say, is "thank you["
It's nice, but having some girl blurt that out, is a bit strange, to say the least.
2006-07-25 16:36:23 · answer #4 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Applicable to strangers:
I'd say " Are you SERIOUS?!"
Of course, i will doubt that phrase she spoke to me.
If she's serious, we'll hit it off. If she's joking, expect a slap in the face and an uppercut on the chin.
Applicable to someone i know:
I'd say "You're kidding. Buy me a Nissan 350z and i'll believe your words."
2006-07-25 16:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by CuriousBro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone I don't know? In that case, "I love you" is rather strong, that kind of love is just physical attraction and probably wouldn't last. I would be somewhat freaked out, I guess, but I would be polite.
2006-07-27 13:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speakin on my boyfriends behalf,he would say no u don't,u don't even know me,u might like me but u don't love me,maybe if u went out with me and got 2 know me 4 a few months,but slow down on the whole love thing
2006-07-25 16:36:26 · answer #7 · answered by InuyashaLover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flattered or creeped out
2006-07-25 16:36:11 · answer #8 · answered by teddybears 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a girl I don't know surprised, but I wouldn't take it seriously.
Someone I knew, interested, flattered.
Someone I liked, let's just say you have my attention. :)
2006-07-25 16:38:24 · answer #9 · answered by thoughtsofastranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually get very annoyed because this strange girl is telling me she loves me when she doesn't even know me. Dork.
2006-07-25 16:36:09 · answer #10 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋