I have been going after this one girl for 4 months now. She said I have a good chance.... but there are like 5 other guys goin after her.... how do I get her to go out with me???
2006-07-25 16:26:57 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
since im a girl. i think i should answer this question for you. do something to WOW or AWW her. make her just notice you and make her forget about the other guys. write her a note or some thing. hopefully you will do well.
2006-07-25 16:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Just be her friend! When you're her friend first, the rest follows, it may take a while, but it will be worth the wait. She may have to see for herself that none of the other 5 guys are for her. If you persue her too obviously, she may just lump you together with the others. Even if she starts dating another, be her friend, and yours will be the shoulder she cries on if it doesn't work out. Not to be negative, but you know what I mean. Sometimes girls don't realize what they've got right under their nose. And then, sometimes they do....
2006-07-25 16:32:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. Take yourself out of the competition. Play the field and make her @ss come after you. You don't have to be mean, just be disinterested. Girls who get a lot of attention from guys CANNOT stand for even ONE guy to ignore them and pay attention to another girl or girls. As soon as you act like you could care less, she'll come running...by then though, you may not even want her anymore because you're having way too much fun!
2006-07-25 16:30:47 · answer #3 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 year previous females are stupid and naive. you appear to be an excellent youthful guy...if she would be in a position to place up with somebody that treats her like that...then you definately should not be dropping it sluggish pricey. i could do merely what you're doing and go away her be. in case you already informed her the type you experience and he or she informed you that she needs you merely as a pal...then i will probable assure that isn't exchange till she gets older. i've got been down this comparable highway and while i exchange into 15, a looonngg time in the past, and that i exchange into stupid and naive and could no longer have probably considered an excellent guy while he got here alongside. Sorry chum, this is the reality.
2016-11-03 00:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her to spend non-date time with you then flirt like crazy! Ask her for help studying. Ask her to go shopping with you and give you a girl's opinion on your purchases. Get a group to go to a theme park or a concert, invite her friends (be extra nice to her friends, but don't take your eyes off of her).
Ask her friends for inside tips on what she likes and how to win her over. They will love that you are taking the time to do it and they will push her in your direction.
Compliments galore, make sure they are sincere because we can tell the difference. Make her laugh... be charming, and show her why you are better than the other five guys.
2006-07-25 16:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by Kristonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hhmmmm. you have a good chance. now isn't that just peachy? I say your solution is to forget about her. Don't you want to be someone's number 1 instead of ...well i guess since harry met sally and doesn't want to go with me anymore I'll go with you charlie.... I think you could do better. And also if you ignore her and treat her like you don't want her anymore it might just get her attention. its a game right.......not like the marriage proposal is on the table and someone is offering livestock. Remember though you might just want to go for some other fish. Best of luck with whatever you decide.
2006-07-25 16:37:38 · answer #6 · answered by rainsparrow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of rude of her to be keeping you on hold for so long if she did in fact say that you have a chance. However, just show her what a great boyfriend you could be by just being yourself. For example, maybe complimenting her and making her feel good about herself, even subtle flirting, she may finally realize that you're her ideal and stop having you wait any longer. good luck.
2006-07-25 16:33:16 · answer #7 · answered by caitymercede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... if right now there are 5 other guys going after her it is likely that she will have many other options to choose from if you two ever date. In other words she will most likely cheat. So i dont tthink she is worth your time.. but there are plenty ofother cute/hot/nice girls out there so keep lookin
2006-07-25 16:32:41 · answer #8 · answered by elemenopee. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask her if she wants to be with you. If she says yes then there you go. But if she tries to play games or dodge the question then she's just wanting the attention and she's not worth that. Either way, you'll know where you stand.
2006-07-25 16:31:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By giving your attention to other girls. Women like that can't stand not being the center of attention, and when she sees you eying another girl, she'll start chasing you.
Honestly though, why would you want to be with someone like that? She sounds manipulative.
2006-07-25 16:30:41 · answer #10 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said you have a good chance! Wow, she sounds very sure of herself...unless you just wanna get laid you better get someone a lil more down to earth!
2006-07-25 16:29:47 · answer #11 · answered by meeso12002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋