I feel like a fool! I know I should move on, but I still want him back. How do I get over him?
2006-07-25 16:22:48 · 23 answers · asked by Z Z 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
perhaps you may want to re-evaluate your definition of love -
listen love gives and sacrifices for the other partner.
I say that because you deserve respect and loyalty and true love so if he can't be that - there are those who can. It's probably not love but lust or jealousy - but find someone who will be there for you faithfully
2006-07-25 16:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by mrfoster 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Well I will tell you that first of all there is no quick fix to a heartbreak. Having said that, there needs to be a little more info on the situation such as has he done this before? Has he apologized and wants to make amends with you? If so is he serious about it? If he shows no remorse then I would suggest that you get some counseling because it's important to treat yourself the way you would treat your very best friend - with love and care and time. Infidelity is a very tough topic so get some guidance on this one. Therapists or counselors need to be shopped around for the same way a good dentist or doctor does. If you don't like your dentist the first time you go to him then you probably wouldn't go back so the same applies to a counselor. I also suggest that you journal at least once a day - spill all those feelings onto paper.
Just remember that YOU have to take care of you and it's important to know that you own your dignity...no one else does unless you let them. Good luck to you and take care.
2006-07-25 16:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to seriously take a reality check if you really want a guy who you know cheats on you!? I mean why would you want to put up with that? Do you not know there are so many guys out there that will treat u better? Do you not think of yourself as deserving better? I thikn you can be better than that if you really wanted to. Don't give him the time of day, if he cares as much for you as you do for him, he will stop cheating, until then....try and not think about him, he is obviously not ready for the kind of realtionship you are. God will give a true man to be in your life, just trust and pray. Good luck and god bless.
2006-07-25 16:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it on the point of the vest and word what takes position. She possibly isn't in love with this guy, she's only flapping her jaws because she were given stuck dishonest on him. it is been over a twelve months, she under no circumstances needed him besides, so I say take a wait and word approach. He seems to love you and in case you probably did not like him you does no longer be asking questions, so I say once you've relaxing jointly then see what's going to develop into of issues. It sounds sturdy! sturdy success!
2016-11-26 00:12:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely move on b/c i have done the same thing and i will tell you right now most of the time he will cheat again and the best way to get over him is hang out with friends and let them help you take your mind of him. You will be better with out him.
2006-07-25 16:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by crystal_brown347 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start dating again, I dont mean jump right into another serious relationship but some casual dating will get your self esteem back up and your mind off your ex. Whatever you do dont go back to him! He will just keep playing you for a fool.
2006-07-25 16:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What to do if you're still in love with your cheating EX bf? Picture him lying in bed with the other woman!! That ought to cure you!!
Honey, have some self-respect and that will make one of you!!
Much Love!!
2006-07-25 16:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not go back to him! I know it hurts now, but he will only cheat on you again because he knows he can get away with it. Likely, he will also try to do even worse things, and if you continue to put up with it, you won't like yourself very much. Move on!
2006-07-25 16:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by julz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and find someone that can make you feel good and has better values than your bf seemed to have. Wise up he was just using you and the future could only be bad if you were dumb enough to go back to him.
2006-07-25 16:27:00 · answer #9 · answered by old codger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby just think that u r the best in the whole world and that he does not deserve to hav eyou.That will show him that he shoul no t plat around.Try to see other friends to find the rigth person,because the man that cheats once will do it again.
2006-07-25 16:33:53 · answer #10 · answered by experienced 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do u want to get over him or be with him..you are not a fool..he is..if u want to overcome what he has done and forgive him then that is what u should do..all i can say is follow ur heart
2006-07-25 16:27:14 · answer #11 · answered by terrysgirl0206 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋