How do I ask people for a one night stand and how do I cope without feeling either used or using?

Answer 1

put your *** out on the street and get paid 202 413 9752

Answer 2

You've got a couple of questions going there. First, one night stands happen more without any kind of planning. Otherwise, you're propositioning someone. Second, how do you cope without feeling used or using? If you really need to ask this, you really shouldn't worry about the first question about one night stands. Even if you convince yourself that a one night stand has no meaning, it sounds to me like you're the kind of person who it does mean something to.

Actually, I think you may just be wanting to experiment without having any ties. That's where the problems begin. Find yourself someone you trust, build your relationship into something you're comfortable with, and then you'll find you no longer need to consider the possibilities because they'll be readily available to you.

Answer 3

One night stands are suppose to be "I scratch you back you scratch mine" typa thing. So there is no need to put so much thought/emotions into it.
The one thing you do need to think about is the possibility of STD's. So you need to think of protection more than the feeling part ;-).
As for how, just be up front. **** if I was a one night stand person I would rather have someone just be straight up then play games/ be coy about it.

Answer 4

that's all a one night stand is----users and usees {i guess that's what u say} but anywayz good luck!!!!!!! one night stands r bad sooooooooooo get a life and a relationship