Shes constantly asking if Im playing her when Im not, she gets guys numbers, goes to guy friends houses when their g/f leaves, talks about dating guys because they have a motorcycle and does things to make me jealous and gets mad when I dont get jealous because it means I dont care enough. Then when I show a little concern she gets on this trust kick. It seems to me like she is trying to play.
2006-07-25 15:38:07 · 7 answers · asked by 1authority 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Or perhaps she is insecure of herself, if so how do I get her over it.
2006-07-25 15:39:14 · update #1
It sounds like she's playing mind games with you. She wants you to be jealous because she thinks that means your into her when in fact its a destructive behavior.
It also sounds like there are some self esteem issues at work here. She's worried about losing you and is trying to gauge your feelings for her, but doing so in a destructive way.
Try making her feel special in a different way. Treat her to nice things and show her that you care in positive ways. Maybe once she recieves this positiive attention, she'll stop with the negative habits.
IF that doesn't work, then talk to her about it. Let her know that its getting to you and that she doesn't need to do it. Reassure her that you care about her.
2006-07-25 15:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by chalis913 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't try to solve her problem, just ditch her. Seriously, there's no hope at all for that relationship. You needn't understand why in any case, just know that the girl you speak of has some personality issues and you need to get out of the relationship as soon as you can. I wouldn't trust her at all if I were you. Some girls are just evil and manipulative, and your gf strikes me as one of them.
2006-07-25 22:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to be harsh, but the answer is always a resounding yes. we all have some sort of small idea or "agenda" that we naturally hide from everyone. its human nature. and woman are real good at it.
2006-07-25 22:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by ar15scorpio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do to her what she is doing to you and let her have a taste of her own medicine. She might understand it a little more then. Good Luck!
2006-07-25 22:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by chrissiewild79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like you need to take her by force, she sounds wild, so be a little wild yourself - thats the most i oculd derive from that anyways.
Oh yea she wants you ;)
2006-07-25 22:42:38 · answer #5 · answered by Simon E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't read the rest, but the answer to your question is always...YES!
2006-07-25 22:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by letum_ante_dedecus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EGG
2006-07-26 14:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by ross 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋