2006-07-25 15:35:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not ok. if u love them that much then get married. then ur ok. sex is Gods gift to married couples
2006-07-25 15:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a personal decision. Some people feel they need to wait, others don't. You have to decide what's right for you. However, if you feel at all uncomfortable or not-ready, don't do it! You'll regret it, trust me. Wait until you're ready. You'll know when. And also, I have to say, most people, I don't think, are ready before the age of 18. Most end up regretting it. Enjoy your time being a child (it's so fleeting) and then you can discover the adult stuff when it's the right time. I was 20 when I started and I was ready and it's never been an issue to me. So good luck and when you're in doubt, wait it out!
2006-07-25 22:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that's a total judgment call and what your beliefs are not anyone Else's.as far as waiting probably when you no that your relationship is secure and there is love and trust i no that its hard these days to wait but if more people did there may be allot of less confusion in peoples lives you also need to be sure you are ready for such a commitment and that your a mature person to handle such a step that your taking.
2006-07-25 22:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by lnay69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT is basically up to you. If you are very young, then you must be prepared for whatever outcome may come from it. If you're thinking of having sex with someone,make sure this is someone who you totally trust and that he respect you. Try holding off and see what his reactions are. Judge his reactions before you leap.
2006-07-25 22:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course its ok to have sex if ur not married to the person nd u dont hav to wait a certain amount of time you wait until your ready an if he cant wait then hes not worth it!! GOOD LUCK!!:) hopefully you'll take my advice!:)
2006-07-25 22:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are of legal age, and can accept the consequences of your actions, sure. You don't have to wait.... but I would spend at least 60 hours of quality time with the person beforehand... just to be on the safe side.
2006-07-25 22:40:45 · answer #6 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that all depends on your morals. according to God you aren't supposed to have sex until you are married. so you really can't set a date on how long you wait to have sex. you just do it when the time feels right. it could be a week, it could be 2 months, it just depends on you.
2006-07-25 22:42:06 · answer #7 · answered by leela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is. wait til ur ready. aka when u love the person and both of u want to take it to the next level.
2006-07-25 22:40:36 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married.
2006-07-25 22:38:04 · answer #9 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have free will to do as you wish. But please ask yourself why you would want to be physical with someone who isn't committed to you? Marriage was designed to not only protect you but trust me the intimacy and oneness of being with someone who truely knows you as only a spouse can only enhances the sexual experience.Get Married first!
2006-07-25 22:44:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋