they keep trashing my room, they lay on the bed and it gets messy and leave it like that, when they plaqy darts they dont pic up the ones that fall on the floor(magnetic) and leave stuff all over, and my cuz broke this accesorie for my fone and i jst got it yesterday and i have no idea what to do
2006-07-25 15:30:47 · 21 answers · asked by kristie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well i cant not let them in my room cuz i need to hang out wit them, and id ont care if they are in my room
2006-07-25 15:33:30 · update #1
there my 1st cuzions and there like my bro and sis and i cant not let them in my room and i did tell ppl
2006-07-25 15:35:54 · update #2
i do have a lock and i do use it
2006-07-25 15:36:29 · update #3
and i barley see them
2006-07-25 15:45:20 · update #4
if they leave the darts on the floor, ask them to pick them up. if they laugh and say why. be a bit more forceful in the way you say it. or tell them "because that's not were they were when you came in.". people should leave a room the way it was like when they came in.
good luck!
Stargazer,
2006-07-25 15:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by Stargazer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a reality check. They are out to trash you, and not have any regrets. Stop and think if they do this to your room and your stuff what do they think of you? Get new friends and leave your cousins to them selves. If you can put a lock on your door. But get new friends.
2006-07-25 22:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by twentyeight7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have two kids 7 and 8 and they are constantly making messes, as long as you have to share the same living space sometimes I would suggest grounding them from whatever item it is that they're disrespecting at the time. i.e. if they don't put the dart away we but the whole board in the closet, at first they will be able to preoccupy themselves with other items but as their untidy actions continue their sources of entertainment will be diminished, in turn teaching them a valuable life lesson, that if we don't take of our things including our loved ones then we wont have them. and Remember consistency is the key when dealing with children- if it isn't okay now it is never okay!!
2006-07-25 22:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by sarahann2425 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through the same problem with my bros
I just can't have my room clean not even for a full day.
What I'm going to do is buy a lock for my room so they won't come in.
2006-07-25 22:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by car4423 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that your room and things are off limits. Talk to your parents about what is going on and explain to them that this is really bothering you.
2006-07-25 22:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be firm and let them know that you keep your room neat and they have to also. If they cannot respect that then you;ll make it off limits to them. Furthermore they will also have to respect your property. By all means let your parents know and seek their help and support.
2006-07-25 22:36:43 · answer #6 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell them that if they want to hang out in ur room they have to clean up after them selves or to get out if u cant do that then deal with it
2006-07-25 22:37:23 · answer #7 · answered by silly little fairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to leave the room and not come back until they can learn how respect you and your property
2006-07-25 22:33:19 · answer #8 · answered by rcrenzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell them to get out and to learn to respect your things.
2006-07-25 22:32:05 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lock your door and tell them a monster lives in there... guaranteed they won't want to go in there.
2006-07-25 22:33:55 · answer #10 · answered by Ashlee S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋