Road Distance within Relationships, Whats everyones opinion?

Question

OK then,

I was talking to my best mate last night who just happens to be a girl, we both seem to want a more than mates relationship but its just a case of when.
She said that a driving distance of around 251KM and a travelling time of almost 3 hours may be just a tad too far for me to travel on a Friday afternoon for a weekend.
I responded to this claim saying "no, not if i'm on the road by around 4pm" "it aint to far at all"

But anyway, my question is how far should I drive while in a relationship and is driving the distance and for the time listed above worth it, she said that it would probobly be worth it but hey.
what does everyone else think on this particular issue??
I mean I think that I love her, just need to sort a few things out 1st, this includes my ex trying to wreak the relationship that I now have with this girl.

For this question answers from both guys and girls will be accepted.

Thanks.

Mitch

Answer 1

My lady and I also live many KM apart, approximately 200. But each and every weekend one of us will travel to the other's stomping grounds so we can be together. We met on-line approximately 2.5 years ago and have seen each other every weekend since then. If you look at your lady the same as I do mine then you would travel twice that distance just to spend some quality time with her. And the ride to and from gives you time to think and be grateful for how good life really is. Best of luck in your relationship.

Oh, by the way this lady and I are getting married next May.

Answer 2

i changed into in a lengthy distance courting the position we were 2 hours away and reported one yet another each and every 2 weeks. at cases it worked however it changed into also very problematic and makes the courting a lot more effective not easy. It did not finally end up operating for us. yet I have a pal who has been in a courting with a guy for a twelve months now and he lives halfway by ability of the country and they often times go a pair months without seeing one yet another. it is different for each person. some can make it artwork, some won't be able to. It only relies upon on the human beings and their theory of ways a courting must be. It would not harm try, so that you may want to continually try it out. only keep in mind that it heavily isn't easy. sturdy success with even with the certainty that determination you're making!

Answer 3

If you really like this girl, why should it matter how far you have to drive to see them. I have had a relationship like this before. 81 miles between us. He didn't like the idea, because of our work schedules. So we met each other half way. Although we didn't actually get to spend a weekend with each other. If you feel that it may be worth it. Go for it. You only live once. If it doesn't work out. You still have memories.

Answer 4

hello!

first u have to ask yourself what is the gravity of your relationship,
it is just like fuel to the car, how much you have.
and you can drive the distance accordingly.

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