2006-07-25 15:24:58 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can live without lust... You can't live without love...
2006-07-25 15:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huge difference! Love gives. Lust takes!
2006-07-25 15:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by LL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can tell you is that Lust is when you desire the person because of their physical beauty. This is a tough question since, to tell the truth, there isn't really a definition for Love. Love is a feeling, something you can't describe because it's beyond words.
2006-07-25 15:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by TheBlackWalker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is when you actually feel something for someone and want to spend the rest of your life with them. Lust is just when you want to have sex with them. You really can't see yourself staying with them forever, it doesn't even cross your mind, you just want them in a sexual way. This type of sex will never be considering making love either. You can only make love to someone you actually love. Making love is gentle. The sex your will experience with lust will be all over the place and wild, not that you can't have that type of sex with someone you love.
2006-07-25 15:29:29 · answer #4 · answered by Sniggly_Snew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust is just animal attraction, love is with the heart mind and soul.
If a guy has lust for a woman, he will have sex, its purely for pleasure and gratification (like a one night stand). If a guy is in love with a woman, they make love, its pleasurable, but also much more intimate and sensual, with a meeting of their hearts.
2006-07-25 15:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I separate the person from who they are, i.e. a body part, that person has an incredible bottom, or they are hot, I am separating the person from who they are to how they appear/look. I am also idealizing who they are based on the objectification of their body, i.e., because that person is hot, I would like to get to know them, or somehow they are appealing emotionally mentally because they are hot. As I am objectifying, lust shows itself in fantasy. What would I like, what would I like to do with and to them. So I would say when the idealized picture of this person is replaced with reality, IE., who they really are. You can accept and be willing to see past faults, issues, problems because Love carries no jealousy, love doesn't judge, love don't do anything for self gratitude, love gives unconditionally, love is trust, love is respect, love is truth!
2006-07-26 20:27:26 · answer #6 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lust is when you just can't wait to get in bed with the other person and just dream about being with them,but when it comes down to it you don't want to spend the rest of your life with this person,or have kids you just lust them.so then love well when it hits you ,you will know the difference.
2006-07-25 15:36:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is what jesus did for us ... dying so we can live , forgiving us of our sins. lust is just wanting to have sex with someone because of looks. love and lust cant be associated with each other, they have nothing in common, love last forever,lust maybe 2 minutes, love says we cam live together forever. lusts says since the sex is over, go some where else. love says let grow old together. lust says now since your old and wrinkled,you dont appeal to me anymore.
2006-07-25 15:33:07 · answer #8 · answered by lolliexiao 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE IS JUST A BIG WORD it was be a shame to make a small matter of it so i hope i won't. let take sex for men and sex for women. men like the visual aspect while women wan the closeness and connection. women try to fine love while have sex, this could never happen. sex and love have nothing to do with each other. so i guess i can't answer that because lust has nothing to do with love.
2006-07-25 15:31:21 · answer #9 · answered by butterflyfrills 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust is about *******. Love is about emotional support.
Love is used on a verity of things - for isntance, I love my cat. But I certainly don't lust after him.
I forget who it was who came up with this, but the ancient greeks had four concepts of 'love'. Philia, eros, agape, and storge.
Agepe is... affection? Careing? It is without lust. But it is love. Like love for one's children. But it is also used for one's spouse.
Eros is... well, in part, lust, but not really. It's physical love, or perhapse something else, the love of someone's... beauty? ...or love of someone's apearence.
Philia is... loyalty. The love for one's freinds. It's come top mean 'friendship' in modern greek.
storge is family love. Love for children, lvoe for parents.
It's hard to define them as seperate entities, but... it comes down to love being a loyalty, a bond, a feeling of affection. A desire for one's company.
Lust is merely a desire for sex. It can be present in love, but the two are not one and the same.
They just tend to be present in romantic love ;) (and Eros.)
2006-07-25 15:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by erynnsilver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is emotional. lust is much more physical (if you know what im saying). It is possible to lust over someone you love.
2006-07-25 15:27:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋