my mom wont listen?

Question

ok my mom and i are exactly alike but our relationship is the worst and so is my relationship with the rest of my family and its like i have no one to talk to. its even hard for me to talk to my friends about stuff

Answer 1

o.k. -- so you can't talk to your mom. So she won't listen to you. So, you don't listen to her. Well, I've got both good and bad news for you kitten. You see, she's the mom. She's the adult. She's the one you should be listening to. It just seems that she is not listening. Maybe she is tuning out because all you are doing is whining and demanding. The good news is, that your mom really loves you. Yeah, she does, but she is having just a bad a time as you are talking to her, and she to you. Gosh, did you know that the whole solution is up to you? Yeah, just try to listen with your heart and not your head. Your head is messing you up. Your heart will tell you what to do. Just listen.

Answer 2

you sound easy enough to talk to but to answer your question sometimes you go through a period in life were you can't talk to your family or friends with out getting into it with them it was like that and is sometimes still like that right know with me and my mom and as for the friend they kinda left the sign a while ago so i'm sure that soon enough you and your mom will make up and resolve you differences or except how alike you both are and move on and become closer and as for your friends the reason why its so hard to talk with them is from the added stress of your bad relationship with your mom basically you and your mom both need to try a little harder to work with each other and little by little you will both build tolerance with each other and life will hopefully be much easier in your household!!!!
~~~ good luck hun

Answer 3

What is the question. Your mom wont listen???? Have you tried talking to her??? You stated that you have nobody to talk to.. Its hard to listen to someone who isnt talking. Maybe you need to find someone and just open up and tell whats on your mind. You will feel better. Good Luck

Answer 4

If you are just like your mother,then you understand why she won't listen. She probably wasn't listened to when she was younger. All she knows how to do is what her mother taught her. We can only teach what we know. Why don't you try to break the cycle? Try to understand her,then you will understand yourself. Then maybe you and she both will be able to talk.

Answer 5

Please consider that if you have problems talking to everyone, then the problem MAY be you. I’m not trying to be cruel, but you are the only thing that all these relationships have in common. Maybe they feel like YOU don’t listen to THEM. If you don’t, then they are not going to want to listen to you. Honestly search your own heart and see if you are not contributing to the problem. And then honestly try to change. I’ll be praying for you.

Answer 6

It sounds as if YOU don't even know how to talk to YOU. In these situations it's sometimes best to seek help from a school counselor or a therapist. I did when I was younger, it was tough but it helped me realize that I was the one I was struggling with.

Answer 7

How old are you? and what kind of a problem do you have? Have you tried to talk to the counselers at school? Why won't your mother listen to you? What is happening to you that you can't tell any one?

Answer 8

I guess first u need to sit and talk to urself be in her shoes and think if you were here would u listen to what u had to say????and if yes then there is a problem with others understanding you..

Answer 9

i know how you feel. mabey you need to have a talk with your mom or a friend or a family member, take an easy and relax its ok to feel that way

Answer 10

try talking to a counselor and maybe your mom could go too so you can work things out between the two of you.