Ladies and dating?

Question

Why is it that ladies dont go for the "nice guys".
It seems as if you ladies like men who are arrogant. Then you complain about how guys are jerks? Ahh, maybe because thats who you prefer to date in the first place!

Answer 1

men sit and question and whine that girls are only attracted to the mean guys, the guys that betate them, and belittle then and dont appreciate them and dont want them: who use them for sex and think of little else then where their next conquest will be made. men complain that thy never meet nice girls, girls who are genuinely interested and compelling, who are intelligent and sweet, smart, and beautiful: men despair that no good women want to share in their lives, that girls play mind games, that girls love to keep then hanging. yet men i ask you: were you to meet one of these genuinely intersing, thrilling, compelling, interesting, and intelligent, sweet, beautiful, and smart girls, were you to giver her your number and wiat for her to call, and if you were to reciever a call form her the next day and she in her truthful, loyal, intelligent and straightforawrd nice girl fashion were to tell you that she finds you intriguing and attractive and intersting and worth her time and perhaps material from which she could fahion a boyfriend, would you or would you not immediatly call your friends to tell them of the "stalker chick" you'd met the night prior, who called you and wore her heart on her sleeve and told the truth? and would you, or would you not, refuse to make plans with her, speak with her, see her again, and once again return to the bar or club or party scene and searhc once more for this "nice girl" who you cannot seem to find? because therein lies the truth guys: nice girls are everywhere, but your not looking for a nice girl. youre not looking for someone genuienely interested in your intramural basketball game, or anatomy midtern grade, or that argument you keep having with your father: your looking for a quick fix, a night when you can pretend to have a connection with another huming being which is just as disposable as the condom you were using during it.

Answer 2

Some ladies do go for nice guys, you just arent looking in the right places for nice girls...

When I was a teenager, I always went for the bad guys, it was like an adrenaline rush being around them. Then as i became an adult, I said the hell with this... bad guys will eventually end up dead, in jail or worse.. a preacher.....ha ha..

Truthfully though dont give up the fight for a good woman because they are definitely out there.. Just tell me, what city do all the good men live at because I need to go there...

Answer 3

Well, these ladies have to grow up then. Girls go through their bad boy phases because if a girl changes a bad boy, it makes her feel special. Like she's the one special girl who can change him. Unfortunately, most if not all girls get their hearts broken this way because no girl is special enough to change a bad boy. Bad boys are only changed if they want to be changed. Girls have nothing to do with it. Frankly, give me a good boy any day. I'm very close to my family, and I need a guy I can bring home to mom.
But while we're on the subject of what people really want.....I'm a good girl (though I can be bad when I want to be). And the good guys I meet always say they want a nice, good girl (like myself) and they say that I'm great. But never great enough to date, because they always run off with the skanks that will slut around on them (and I warn them of this too). Then the guys come back to me and wonder why she would do such a thing. Maybe good girls want bad boys, just like good guys want bad girls. Ever think of that?

Answer 4

Thats a good question because my ex -girlfriend and I hung out all the time and had a lot of fun, but now she is with a guy that fight her all the time. I never put my hands on her unless it was to relax her. I was a nice guy but with the wrong woman.

Answer 5

nice guys ARE predictable.. We will be there when u need us, we will come change yr flat tire , or help u move. When we say we will pick u up after work, we will. We won't leave u strnded for 2 yrs. We won't embarass you in front of yr family or your friends. We will remember birthdays and anniversaries and be happy to celebrate them with u. Now, what's bad about being a nice guy???

Answer 6

You've just been with the wrong girls is all. 80% of women want a nice guy. We all like a little bad boy in them. But, not jerks

Answer 7

I married the nice guy. I only dated the nice guy, but then I was the wild girl. I had parties that lasted for 12 hours or better on weekends.

Answer 8

i ONLY go for the nice guys, and still i get left with an @sshole who tried to pretend to be nice. we dont complain about how they r jerks cuz they ARE jerks

Answer 9

maximum black women human beings i understand are courting their own race. lots of the specialist ones are courting specialist black men or hard operating black men. Now with asian women each and every man or woman is those that I see courting out plenty, they often date white men. Their are multiple 0.5 asian white human beings the position I come from that i imagine that throughout 5 years, their will be a white asian race lol! yet black women human beings date who they prefer. and that i do not thoroughly trust your question both, sorry.

Answer 10

u kno i think girls want wat they cant hav.....so they want the guys that dont at first seem to want them.....which r usually the arrogant ones.......but i think in the end some those arrogant guys might be just hiding under a thick skin that conceals their vulnerability as a guy who is gentle and considerate.....but u hav a point......some grls just stay with the dumb ones cuz its too late for them to let go of their feelings.....but dont wry sooner or later they will c ur "better"