2006-07-25 14:55:43 · 58 answers · asked by canmakeurbedrock 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
men sit and question and whine that girls are only attracted to the mean guys, the guys that betate them, and belittle then and dont appreciate them and dont want them: who use them for sex and think of little else then where their next conquest will be made. men complain that thy never meet nice girls, girls who are genuinely interested and compelling, who are intelligent and sweet, smart, and beautiful: men despair that no good women want to share in their lives, that girls play mind games, that girls love to keep then hanging. yet men i ask you: were you to meet one of these genuinely intersing, thrilling, compelling, interesting, and intelligen, sweet, beautiful, and smart girls, were you to giver her your number and wiat for her to call, and if you were to reciever a call form her the next day and she in her truthfil, loyal, intelligent and straightforawrd nice girl fashion were to tell you that she finds you intriguing and attractive and intersting and worth her time and perhaps material from which she could fahion a boyfriend, would you or would you not immediatly call your friends to tell them of the "stalker chick" you'd met the night prior, who called you and wore her heart on her sleeve and told the truth? and would you, or would you not, refuse to make plans with her, speak with her, see her again, and once again return to the bar or club or party scene and searhc once more for this "nice girl" who you cannot seem to find? because therein lies the truth guys: nice girls are everywhere, but your not looking for a nice girl. youre not looking for someone genuienely interested in your intramural basketball game, or anatomy midtern grade, or that argument you keep having with your father: your looking for a quick fix, a night when you can pretend to have a connection with another huming being which is just as disposable as the condom you were using during it.
2006-07-25 15:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by steph 3 · 24⤊ 6⤋
Okay, not all guys are @$$holes, but all of them have their moments (just like every girl has their bitchy moments). Gusy go through phases, like girls, and usually when they are young and cute, is when they go through their selfish phases. Who can give me good sex? Who will let me chug beer with my buddies? Who will let me be a pig? And who looks good in a bikini? Sorry guys, but this makes you look like an @$$hole. Girls you date want to be the only and most wonderful thing in the world to you. They don't want you wondering if there's anything better. You should take one look at her and think she's the best, no question. Eventually, men get to that point. But only after years of skirt-chasing and @$$hole behavior. So there you go. No, not all guys are @$$holes, they just all have their moments.
2006-07-25 15:01:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about the girls who have said it. They have probably been burnt before and are in their anti-guy rampage. If they personally called you an ****** then I would get bent out of shape about it, but if they're talking generally, then hey, brush it off your shoulders.
Just think about this though, you get hurt with the generalization that all men are *******, well, we, women, get hurt with many of the generalizations put on us!
2006-07-25 15:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because a lot of girls have been hurt by a guy in some way and then they just think all guys r the same way. Don't worry the girl needs guys all girls do, she'll come around.
2006-07-25 15:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we act like a$$holes to them. Some guys say all girls are full of complaining and shopping. If we can call them names why cant they call us names?
2006-07-25 14:58:43 · answer #5 · answered by Danny C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys and girls are totally different. Women want their man to be emotionally there for them. They want them to show affection and genuine concern for them/ the relationship. Men are action inclined. They want to fix whatever is broken, not be emotionally there. Men aren't aholes. They're strong & willing, but just need to remember that when they're w/ their women, or girl counter part to give some subtle gestures that your still there with them emotionally/ mentally. Not just physically & have not checked out the building.
2006-07-25 15:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by Jorgapeach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know, maybe its just because we are all taught as children, that lying is wrong but only us females respect people enough to stand by and tell the truth where as men are a$$holes and choose to lie about most things in life?!
Howz that!
2006-07-25 15:02:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally Speaking.. Most Girls Say That Because. They Didn't Get Their Way. They Didn't Get Want They Wanted. The Guy Got What He Wanted.. In Other Words "Hit It N Quit It" Likus 101.. HEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOOOO TTTTTTTTTTTTTOOOOOOOOOOOOMMMMMMMMM.. Take Me Out Kobi Style!
2006-07-25 15:01:01 · answer #8 · answered by DemonicPsychoAngel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same reason you say we're confusing and demanding. It's just a generalization.
Unfortunately, generalizations tend to be negative ones. They aren't true for everybody and I know quite a few guys that are really nice.
2006-07-25 14:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by Aimers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls who say that have been hurt or gotten dumped or something, now they're just lashing out. And some of them have the right to do so, I suppose.
2006-07-25 14:58:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some are. I give us that. But you are right. Not all of you guys are. They just need an excuse for their horribly bad relationships in the past and need to believe that was the reason why it wen't wrong.
2006-07-25 14:57:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋