okay this guy that just so happens to be really good friends with my bf was sitting next to me on the couch at my cosins and we were eating pizza and getting ready to watch a movie when my cousin said that he wanted to show my bf his 2 newest dirt bikes so they went down to the garuage. i was getting the movie ready to watch, i left, came back, sat on the couch next to him and was reaching for the controller to see if the sound systum was on. when he just started to tell me how good i looked, i said thank you and thought nothing of it but then he started touching my hair, i smacked his hand and he said sorry. i was like whatever and was getting ready to get up to go see what was taking so long when he grabed my hand, pulled me down and seriously kissed me, i was kicking around when my cousin and bf came running in and they really kicked his *** but i am still shook up and well quit frankly don't know what to do or how im ever going to be able to kiss my bf with out thinking about it !!
2006-07-25 14:52:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok you know when your being kissed by a guy whos best friends with your bf your not thinking about kicking his a$$ your thinking oh my good wtf is he doing
2006-07-25 15:10:38 · update #1
oh my god thats horrible...wait it out for a bit, then you have to face your boyfriend. he cares about you and u shouldnt let him off like that, definitely sexually assaulted
2006-07-25 14:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by Janeyy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't know about today's standards - frankly I think we call everything abuse today. In my day - we would have taken care of that ourselves. The problem is that girls aren't taught HOW to handle boys when their young so it's harder when you get older. You did good to smack him but then you could have slapped him or pushed him away or kicked him where it hurts. Lots of guys I've slapped and pushed away and never was traumatized. It actually would have been better for you to handle him than have your BF kick his butt. If you're really worried about his - maybe you should take a self-defense course. Might do you good.
2006-07-25 14:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by longhats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were not sexually assaulted. You were sexually battered.
"Battery" is when a person lays their hands on you that you don't want to touch you. "Sexual battery" is when a person touches you in a sexual way that you don't want to touch you. (yes forcing you to kiss them too) You could call the cops. He would be arrested. But your boyfriend kicked his boo ta ta so he "assault and battered" him. So he may file a complaint on your boyfriend. Your boyfriend could get in trouble too. The bottom line in the real world you just can't lay your hands on other people. You will get arrested.
2006-07-26 15:29:50 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, seems more like a molestation than a sexual assault. yo umight even be able to call it a battery. it also depens on his and your age. if your 16 or under and he's an adult, then you might have a case. call the police and ask for advice.
2006-07-25 14:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by xcopdiva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you were deffinetly sexually assualted, but you need to keep your relationship going with your boyfriend. Try explaining to him about your feelings on everything and if he loves you he will understand.
2006-07-25 14:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were being sexually assulted.
You need to have a serious talk with your b/f and tell him exactly how you feel.
Hope you can get over this.
2006-07-25 14:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by rb_cubed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He new better!! Maybe he really likes you and thought that was a way show you!! Or he may just be a jerk!!! take it slow with your b/f until you feel more comfortable.
2006-07-25 14:58:03 · answer #7 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's however you take it. . . it seems like being seriously aggressive . . . but if you feel assaulted then you were. It's all about your belief. If it's not what you want then it's assault in my opinion.
2006-07-25 15:03:47 · answer #8 · answered by BlueLantern 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay look your bf really cares about you if they kicked his *** and i wouldn't worry about .just think about how much he cares about you.
2006-07-25 15:00:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u werent SEXUALLY assualted.. but if it made u uncomfortable u need to confront him. and its good that they kicked his @$$. that shoulda helped a li l
2006-07-25 14:56:28 · answer #10 · answered by strictly_maggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋